2006-10-23 15:42:39 · 13 answers · asked by Kyra 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a sociopath is someone who has no concience i think, so you can expect him to try to control you with threats,and manipulation. he odviously has no boundaries, so i would get a restraining order right away, change the locks on the house,change my phone number, maybe even change jobs and find a safe place you can go till this ends.
2006-10-23 15:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expect things to get bad, very bad. Get a restraining order and under no circumstances, should you be alone with him. My ex was kinda crazy before we split but when we split, he went nuts. He would show up at my house to "pick up the boys" and would refuse to leave. He'd hold me hostage in my own house for hours at a time. Once, I tried to call the police and he broke my phone. He'd pin me against the wall, making me listen to what he has to say. I think you can also get a protection order which doesn't last as long but is pushed through much more quickly. Please do so very soon! Here's a link to more info about a protection order: http://www.protectionorder.org/protection_orders.htm#q1
2006-10-23 16:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Lynda M ♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is scary. My sisters ex used to, spy in her windows, and his new girlfriends windows (she was already cheating on him) and come and tell his soon to be ex wife about it. He is an excellent liar and used it however he could to his advantage during the divorce and in life. He uses their child to hurt her whenever he can and had to have his child support payments garnished. He also gave a false work address/info.
He makes everything about him and all attention must be on him. Still trying to control even though she is remarried (so is he). I would say one of the creepier things was the feeling of being followed by him still and him lurking around trying to still find out stuff about her life and her extended family life. He seems the sort of person who could do something horrible with no emotion connected to it at all. Please find ways to be safe, do not provoke a fight, do not let him in on things in your life. Be polite (even when he will not be) but calmly stand up for yourself and stay safe.
2006-10-23 15:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he really IS scary, get a restraining order from your attorney, change your phone number, and I would, if possible, move to a new location where he wouldn't know how to contact you. Your safety is the upmost importance in this matter. If your family can help you move, do so immediately. He is capable of almost anything strange and the best solution is to distance yourself from him without ANY contact. Remember, your attorney is on your side, so if he needs to get in touch with you about anything, let his attorney contact your attorney, that is what they are there for. Good Luck!
2006-10-23 15:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy S 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly you never know. We were all scared of what my dad would do to my mom when she left. He would put stuff in her car(cause he still had a key), but it would be stuff like a card or something. We never let her go anywhere by herself, so that may be why he never did anything. Of course he may not have ever tried. You just never know how they are going to react to things, from one day to the next. Just be sure to watch your back, put a lock on your gas tank and just be causious. Good luck.
2006-10-24 04:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, i won't be able to help you via fact the lighting fixtures furniture have long gone out and that i'm right here in the dark and that i'm too scared to observe something top now and......what's THAT SOUND???? omg, somebody is attempting to break into my homestead!!!
2016-10-02 21:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would expect him to act like a sociopath.
I would hire a bodyguard. Maybe contact a local mixed martial arts school in the area. Ask one of the fighters if they would help you stay safe. Maybe you could even learn how to protect yourself. I feel for you, I hope you find peace and happiness in each of your days.
2006-10-23 15:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
See a lawyer. Tell your lawyer he's a sociopath and give some brief stories that show him why.
Tell your lawyer you expect trouble from him -- and then do exactly what the lawyer asks you to do.
2006-10-23 15:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
expect everything! if he is jealous, he will be vingeful...
for what ever reason you are "leaving"....keep a note book, your phone records, etc of every time he contacts you.
hope, and pray theat he finds something/ someone else to focus on....if you have kids, you won't be rid of him for a while...
2006-10-23 15:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by Sassy Belle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From my experience lost of friends and alot of rumors from people that hardley know you.
2006-10-23 15:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by army1o4h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋