by this i mean sleep with him even though he countiues to say hes str8
2006-10-23 15:14:37 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
GO FOR YOURS PAPI,,LIVE YOUR LIFE ,,TO HELZ WITH THESE PEOPLE
2006-10-23 15:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you trying to prove? That you can seduce someone? Congratulations. There are millions of men who have sex with other men but live their day-to-day lives as if they're straight. Married. Sleeping with girlfriends. Going to straight strip clubs. And occasionally going on the down low.
I don't want to presume anything, so forgive me if I'm wrong. But something about this sounds like you are hoping that this straight guy will fall in love with you. I've heard it before. If this is the case, it may mean that you harbor a feeling of rejection toward your gay brothers. Sometimes (probably not with you) the scenario goes like this: If I can win the affection of a straight guy, I won't have to be so ashamed of myself as a gay man.
One-time sex doesn't make a person gay, straight or bisexual. It's much more complex and much more long-term. If you seduce a straight guy, you'll get a night of sex. If you start dating gay men, you may find someone who wants to love you.
2006-10-23 15:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's wrong, but not for religious reasons or anything like that. If he's not gay, he's not gay which means he's not attracted to you or any other man for that matter. That would be like trying to get you to sleep with a woman.
You can't turn anyone gay, just like you can't turn a gay guy straight (despite what you might be told). Leave him alone and go find someone else.
By the way, God did not make male and females only... Hermaphrodites.... ever hear of them?
2006-10-23 15:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Stina 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No it is not wrong. If this guy wants to claim he is str8 and wants sex with a guy...so what? Go for it if that is what you want. But remember that chances are it will be a one-night stand.
2006-10-24 00:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by Spyder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not wrong, your like every gay mans idol. Hell I do it, even if he wanted to sleep with other girls. The only thing that matters is that he keeps going to your bed. But make sure it's safe sex.
2006-10-23 15:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by aza_424 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to sleep with you, then he's not straight.
If he wants to sleep with you then it's not wrong.
If he has told you he's straight and does not want to sleep with you, then you are wrong in not dropping the issue. As a matter of fact, he has every right to get angry and even physical in a not so sexual way with you.
2006-10-23 15:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he sleeps with you he's not straight. But I just read a survey recently that said 8 of 10 men who've had some sort of sexual intercouse with another man, said they do not consider them selves gay. Hmmmm...
2006-10-23 15:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by Smitten_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh for goodness sakes...
ok...you slept with him...:
was it fun?...
does he want to do it again?...
did he call you later?....
if you answered yes to these questions...
hun, youve turned him out..
Turning someone out, normally does not involve wearing matching rainbow sweaters, and singing Judy Garland, Liza, or Pattie LaBelle songs on the way to the disco...
2006-10-23 15:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by bopddbop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well if he is straight, he wouldnt have slept with u in the first place, in my opinion he is prolly just really curious and if he continues to do it then he obviously like it and u. hes prolly just confused and is trying to figure himself out and ur a good person for him to figure it out with. but NO, it isnt wrong at all, now it would be if he didnt wanna sleep with u, but like i said.. its obvious that he does..
best of luck!!
2006-10-23 16:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by SiMPLY ME<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a difference between sex and rape. If he says no, than it's wrong. But i have this **** buddy who is always telling people she's straight. If you know he's gay and just playing hard to get, then go for it.
2006-10-23 15:36:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to out someone unless they are a public personality or politician that demonizes gay people.
2006-10-23 15:42:49 · answer #11 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋