I SOUND LIKE A RIGHT MAN HATER, BUT ITS JUST THE MOOD IM IN TONIGHT :P SORRY TO BE NOSY, DONT ANSWER IF U DONT WANT TO, WHATS THE WORST A MAN HAS EVER PUT U THROUGH ?
2006-10-23 15:13:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No all men aren't the same it is just the men and the people you tend to be around. Change the way you meet men and be honest with yourself when things are going bad or when they are going good. Know that you can do better but only if you think you are worthy of a good relationship. Know what you what from a man, a relationship, life and from yourself.
2006-10-23 15:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by deb b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the way you stated your follow up question, it sounds like you just want to hear a big YES! and have other women sympathize with you.
But if you're honest about your question, then the answer is definately NO. Just like how all women are also not the same, although both gender have similar tendencies of their own, unless otherwise cultivated and have given effort to acquire better habbits and behaviour.
From the way you have asked your question, I cannot help to think that you are probably almost always ending up with sleeze balls and jerks. Then maybe the problem lies within yourself. What I mean is, the chances of meeting people is based on your location. If you keep hanging around people and places with a tendency to attract sleezeballs and jerks then maybe you have to try to change the factors that matters and stop changing guys, who realistically, you cannot change.
2006-10-23 15:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by TornadoSky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No all men are not the same. I do not mean to brag, but I'm going to anyway. I have a great man!! He loves and respects me. Our relationship is wonderful.
My father on the other hand loves his alcohol more than his family. He and my mom are divorced now (5 years ago!!) but when they were married, it was ugly. He came home from the bar at night and if she didn't have dinner waiting for him in the oven he would freak out. Luckily for us he never hit her or us kids, but he could say some pretty mean things, throw a lot of things and punch holes in the wall. It took my mom a good 5 or 6 years before she finally had enough of his S**t and kicked him out. There were a couple of times when I thought for sure he was going to hit her and I called the cops. But my mom would always stick up for him and they wouldn't take him to jail. He never did anything to me, he knew I wouldn't put up with it, but it took my mom a while to be able to stand up for herself. Alcoholism is a bad thing. My mom wonders why it took her so long to get out, but she is much happier now. Remarried to a great guy, so NOT like my dad. But she still has many insecurities from her marriage to my dad and the way her made her feel sometimes. And it can get a little tough on her new husband. But he is a great guy and he stands by her side.
Don't loose faith, we all have bad moments. But sometimes it has to pour before the clouds will clear and let the sun through!!
Hang in there!!!!
2006-10-23 15:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way are they all the same.
My ex husband (I had dated him for 3 years, then married for 17) is a liar, cheater,user, abuser, thinks it is his right to cheat on women but not their right to do the same to hm (not that I would have anyway and I never did), drug user and abuser, can't hold down a job for more than a few months--if that (is living in his dads fifth wheel trailer right now with his dog since he can't seem to keep a place of his own), spends all his money in one day (if it takes that long), doesn't pay bills, etc. I could go on and on and on.
The fiance I have now is totally different! He is NOTHING like my ex! He is sweet, kind, respectful, thinks of everyone else first and himself second, is a great dad to his 3 teen girls, doesn't believe in lying, cheating, using, and abusing anyone--especially women, is great with money, has held down jobs for several years (last one before this one was for 18 years; not his fault that the boss decided to give up the business), etc. I could go on and on and on and on about him.
So, you see, there are different kinds of men out there. It's just hard to find the good ones and the bad ones have given the good ones a bad name and make it harder for them to find someone as girls/women don't trust them after the bad ones have gotten ahold of them . Trust and believe in yourself, don't let ANYONE abuse you in any way, shape, or form, and don't settle for just any guy.
2006-10-23 15:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, ill tell i know how you feel every thing was goin great with my boyfriend then i found out i was pregnant, when i started showing, he started cheating on me, he got hooked on cocain for a short while, held hit me, hardly ever come home, their was so many times i just wanted to kill my self, but the baby in my belly kept me goin... Then when i had the baby that must have been a wake up call for him.. Believe it or not he stopped all that stuff... Our baby was the best thing that happen to both of us, we got married and things have been the best since... I dont know how old you are or what your goin threw but i want you to know i wish you the best of luck and just know there is hope for some guys... ;)
2006-10-23 15:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being a nice guy, no not all of us are jerks only trying to get in ur pants, remember the guy you call ur best friend (brother)? try him. He'll treat u like a princess, believe me. But ne hoo, the worst thing a guy ever did 2 me was 1 day after i broke up with my 1st real g/f that i had my 1st kiss with, my best friend slept with her. its great being a nice guy and being able 2 "understand".
2006-10-23 15:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by telumdedeus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ,all men are not same some are good people some are a big blog of s#it they dont care for nothing or nobody buy there self.But you know this sound like some women allso.
2006-10-23 15:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no they arent all the same.
the worst would be verbal n physical abuse ..drug addiction. and child neglect ( as in would hit me when i held our child to feed him) but dont worry i stabbed him n last i heard he was in a stand off with police for threatning a neighbor with a gun and beatin his new gf with a hammer all over drugs dont know if he went to prison or if he is dead. all i know is i would never go thru that again. ever
2006-10-23 15:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men are not the same, some of them are gay.
I've never had a man in my life who didn't hurt me in some way.
2006-10-23 15:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by jipsi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not all men are the same in my book.The worst i have put up with is a ***** tricking off his money to other hoes.
2006-10-23 15:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋