My hearts been broken. I just told my crush and best friend that i loved him, and he doesnt like me that way. I dont even know if were friends now. My hearts broken and i dont think its going to mend anytime soon. What do i do?
2006-10-23 15:02:13 · 14 answers · asked by Mayday Cay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Glue it.
I'm just joking...stitches.
Just joking again.
Now I'm being serious. Recently I had the same thing happen to me, except I'm a guy and your not. I am fifteen and all my friends have given me really bad advice. I think talking to someone who has the same problem as you can help. email me if you want to and we can talk. My address is superswimmer_1138@yahoo.com.
2006-10-23 15:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by Plague92 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're the best of friends, I'm sure he is also affected by this unexpected outcome to the relationship. The strength of this relationship is now under test.
You must be utterly shattered, poor girl. Cry it out. Cry again if you need to. Just give yourself time to accept the truth.
Then, begin to be thankful that the truth is known earlier before more damage is done. And understand that love is a mysterious thing and nobody is at fault.
You can still remain as friends if you choose to, knowing that a good friend is hard to come by, much more a best friend.
2006-10-23 22:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by dickson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend should understand you already love them. As for the disappoint you are feeling, do things that make you happy. If you use to do things together with your best friend; try doing it alone. Your friendship will survive and your best friend will understand that you need to work out your feelings. Time heals all wounds, even broken hearts
2006-10-23 22:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by candycrystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals all. and it works wonders on a shattered heart. the heart, like any muscle becomes stronger once it has been stressed.
in a few days, the pain will be alot less, trust me. and the next love you feel will be even stronger, and will make you smile more.
2006-10-23 22:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time really is the best healer. It's okay to cry and moan though. I think we
need to do that too. Just be ready because one of these days you are going
to feel like laughing again. I know. That's how life is.
2006-10-23 22:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by sunnymommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound stupid but: TIME. Time heals all wounds.
You just have to believe that right now it`s awful and it hurts so bad and it feels like your heart is being ripped out of your body BUT you have to believe that it WILL get better and there IS someone else out there FOR YOU!!!
2006-10-23 22:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bestfriend is not ready for you and he told you the truth instead of leading you on so look at it that way instead of just a broken heart look at it as a good friend looking after you
2006-10-23 22:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by upthang06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lock yourself in your room and pig out on ben and jerrys ice cream all night!
2006-10-23 22:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by [[?ME&&YOU?]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat lots of ice cream (the cure to anything)
2006-10-23 22:06:01 · answer #9 · answered by Soccer Chik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty good men out there.i hope you are not a child
2006-10-23 22:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by 16 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋