hi, i feel really bad for suspecting my husband dave, of cheating but im 90% sure he is, he is always working late and when he comes in he always smells of beer, and aftershave, i think he might be using the afterhshave to cover up the beer but its not working because i can still smell it, i think hes seeing sum1 else and i think that person might be my sister , she is like my best friend, i cant ask them beacuse i,l lose a best friend , a sister, and a husband, and also my 3 young kids ,x its ruining my life!
2006-10-23 14:57:58 · 11 answers · asked by £ Dave'sWifey £ 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
What's beer got to do with cheating?
I've never cheated in my life, but I've been known to have beer on my breath ...
2006-10-23 15:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by Bunky the Clown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ,, theres only person who can tell u if he's cheating.and that's him. If you are not really a jealous type person , then there's a chance you're right . If u r the jealous type u maybe just reading things into it. But i think u would b best served to figure out a way to sit down with him CALMLY and just ask him.Remind him that the 2 of u have family and is the affair really worth messing everything up.I'm a man myself and we will listen if u don't rant and rave when u try and talk 2 us. But if u just start raising hell that'll just give him a chance to run out and avoid the conversation for then! As a man i must admit ,most of the affairs that i've had were usually with close friends of my wife or her relatives. So also watch who's at your house too much. We men are generally lazy and perfer to hunt close to the yard........ P.S. Try making your man a little happier if you really want him home with you. a lil sumptin speacial never hurt either (more than once or twice a month). Cause that other woman will let him hit it every time she sees him. Keep his d -ck soft and his legs weak before he walks out the door and he won't have anything left 4 the other woman. It's your family , and your life ..WHAT'S IT WORTH TO YOU!!!!!
Hope a guys piont of view helps you out. Let me no how u came out ?
good luck MUDMAN 48
2006-10-23 15:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by mudman48 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your having a hard time. You can always investigate or have someone follow him. He might just be going out with the guys for some beer. If he is cheating on you, he really doesn't deserve you. He and your sister have to pay the consequences and that would be a life without you and the kids. Be strong.
2006-10-23 15:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by simvils 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dunno...i think of by way of observing your self, your doing the spectacular concern, in spite of the undeniable fact that, as against asserting all men are undesirable. Are you falling for men who do no longer prefer to commit? Are you lacking signs and indications? Do you think of you're naive, or passive? I propose you spend some time merely being pals with men, and get to renowned the different intercourse in that context till now you get into yet another dating. i'm valuable you will determine it out and finally end up getting what you prefer. stable success.
2016-11-25 01:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by kullas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing which you must do is check out on his other activities and find out for sure because someone having beer does not mean he is cheating on you and he comes home late because he must be going to beer bars so you got to find it out and get it out of your head or else it would be lot of stress on yourself.
2006-10-23 15:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by webmaster@complete-webs.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time dave isn't home on time pack up the kids and make a suprise visit to your sisters house, just to say HI !!
2006-10-23 15:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by donvonjovie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a babysitter while he is out and follow him, if you feel strongly about it...that is if you have already talked to him and u get no where....of course you can ask one or both of them u are entitled to speak your mind and don't deserve to be taken advantage of, especially by those that u love the most! hope it works out for you!
2006-10-23 15:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats all the evidence you have I would just ask him if he has been going to the bar and see what he says, but if you have more I would confront one or both of them and just ask.
2006-10-23 15:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by Namless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND OUT...if you suspect something confront him and see if he says anything...and if your sister is such an amazing friend then she wouldnt do that would she..and if she is a great friend then ask her...dont let it go on! personal experience here...
2006-10-23 15:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a big mess, good luck to you however it turns out.
2006-10-23 15:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by boopers1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋