I GOT BACK WITH MY BOYFRIEND "GEE" WE HAD BEEN GOING OUT SINCE 2 YEARS AGO TILL I FOUND OUT THAT MY FRIEND WAS TRYING TO TALK TO HIM I FELTED SO BAD I STOP TALKING TO MY FRIEND AND HIM THIS HAPPENED 2 MONTHS AND NOW I FIND OUT THAT IM PREGNAT WHAT SHOULD I DO HE KNOWS IM PREGANAT AND HE WANTS TO GET BACK WITH ME HE HAS DONE EVERYTHING FOR ME TO FORGET HIM BUT I CAINT I DONT WANT MY CHILD TO BE WITH OUT HIS/HER DAD... SO I GAVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE DID I DO RIGHT OR DID I MESSED UP ??? PLEASE HELP ME FIGURE OUT MY FEATUR I WANT THE BEST FOR MY CHILD SHOULD I STAY WITH HIM OR LEAVE HIM????
2006-10-23 14:55:35 · 6 answers · asked by JP 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He will always be the father but you do not have to have a relationship with him if you are not comfortable. I did not see the word love or any other emotion towards the guy except your pregnant and he is the father. So just let him be the father. There are a lot of single parents that make it through the world.
2006-10-23 15:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by simplyjaxxs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a little too late to be asking advice, you already made your choice. If he was messing or even talking with your friend, then he is no good. He will probably mess around again. It is nice for a child to have both parents, but if the relationship is not a good one, then it is best that the parents split up.
2006-10-23 21:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to be with him for him to be a part of your childs life. You have to do what makes you happy. If there was a reason you broke up with him it was pry a good one. So do what you think it right, and whats going to be best for you and the child in the long run, if you think he's going to do something that will betray your trust then don't put yourself through that just because you want your kid to grow up with his/her dad. But make it clear to the dad that he can be a part of the kids life, just not yours...if you decide that is what is right
2006-10-23 21:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by Bumble Bee Nurse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do whatever u feel and think is right for u and ur baby and also with him.. if u feel happy and better when u got back together then good.. if not thats ok too.. things will get better and better as the days goes by..
2006-10-23 22:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by kenshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for your child is to bring him/her into a secure and happy environment. You need to do what is going to make you the happiest.
2006-10-23 21:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u shouldn't get back together with him. maybe become really close friends so that ur your child knows that they always have both parents to come to in a time of need.
2006-10-23 21:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by alyssa s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋