Okay, so my boyfriend is such a sweet, gently, loving, and I have to admit, very handsome and easygoing guy. He does everything, like cooking, cleaning, stuff like that, because I work and he doesn't. Well, so he approached me today and said he has a confession.... that it would REALLY excite him if I hooked up with his friend while he taped it!!!!!! .... He's SERIOUS! He REALLY wants me to do it! I mean, he isn't the type to ever push me, but it's so weird, WHO LIKES THAT???? Anyone ever have that happen??? What the heck do I do, it's so weird, there aren't any words I could give you to describe the confusion and just, WHOA feelings I have just THINKING about it! Come on! I'm so serious, this is growing weirder by the second... he's cleaning right now, so while he's reoccupied.... HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-23 14:53:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh, and what could he be WATCHING to make him think like this?? I mean, I don't care if you watch stuff like this, just tell me what it is that could have made him even THINK about it...
2006-10-23 14:55:37 · update #1
I would say if your boyfriend really wants you to do that and you are completely against it you need to tell him that specifically. Let him know that you are not interested in hooking up with anyone but him. And if he still pushes the issue maybe he's not as innocent as he seems. You never know with guys.
2006-10-23 14:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by rainydayislandgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And...are you going to sign a "model's release" so that he can freely distribute it over the international highway, making tons of money?
Do you really have to ask us if this is right or wrong? Think woman! This is exploitation! This degrades you and makes you a commodity. Maybe this is why he doesn't do the 9-5? This is an easier way to make money, honey!
Tell him to "Hit the road, Jack, and don't you come back no more, no more, no more, no more - hit the road, Jack and don't you come back no more!" (Theme song for leaches!)
2006-10-23 14:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I worked with a guy that had his wife do that sort of stuff all the time it really floated his boat. but you should ask him if he has ever done this kinda stuff with any other girlfriends? and you should think how you would feel seeing him with another girl!!!! This is not something to be taken lightly. as far as tapping it as long as it stayed with you it might be OK, but think about what would happen if it fell into the wrong hands.
2006-10-23 15:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Richard W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation with my x,my feelings at the time were the same as you,i will say that if he loved you and thought anything of you he would never want any other man to touch or want to watch while another man paws the women he loves,i could never bare another women doing anything with my man he is for me and me only.I hope this helps
2006-10-23 15:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby enjoys the same thing. Wants to see me with another man. Never had the actual 3some, but I have done a couple of guy friends for the fun of it. Told my hubby everything and it got him goin crazy! Thing is, Im not interested in just jumping just anyone. I have to at least like the guy and have some sort of communication connection. Hense, the reason I have only done it a couple of times. Hubby doesnt push but its his fantasy to watch, then join in.
Its not as crazy as it seems. But if its something you are totally against, dont do it just to please him.
2006-10-23 14:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure that he isn't testing you to see what you would say? I don't think that you should do it, it sounds like a recipe for disaster. I think if you did it there would be jealousy issues involved. Besides that, you never know where the tape might end up at.
2006-10-23 14:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him NO! and be firm. I hate to say this, because he sounds like an otherwise nice guy, but you may have to consider leaving if he pusues this. You desrve to be treated with honor and repect...You are a treasure. Remember that!
2006-10-23 14:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by motown_annie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the words of that famous philosopher, Nancy Reagan, JUST SAY NO. Be firm and tell him that is definitely not for you.
2006-10-23 15:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by Ace Librarian 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this something you are not comfortable with then don't do it. If you did it could bite you in the a**.Suggest a different fantasy to your boyfirend and try to compromise.
2006-10-23 14:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your boyfriend has a fetish. To each his own, I suppose, although you shouldn't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable.
2006-10-23 15:00:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋