I suggested he call and take her flowers. He said she's not a flower kind of girl.....suggestions
2006-10-23 14:31:26 · 27 answers · asked by sunshine2507 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Yeah try to solve problems with gifts at an early age; i would definitely forgo the talking part and just realize that the male is always wrong and start directly with the gifting to absolve the problems; the likelihood of recurrences is nonexistent, good call!
2006-10-23 15:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by roncho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how he hurt the girl's feelings. Does he still like the girl? did he hurt her feelings by breaking up with her? Either way he should definitely apologize in person, but giving her flowers might be a little too much if he doesn't like her like a girlfriend. If he knows that she is not a flower person, then he must be pretty close to the girl. Ask him what she likes and then decide from there.
2006-10-23 17:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by KT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
every girl is a flower type of girl..i HATE and i mean HATE flowers(its got 2 do with my moms stupid obsession..) but if a guy was to give me flowers i would adore those flowers, it more got to do with the thought
2006-10-24 07:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by ally_h_22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well truly he should say hes sorry / write her a poem / a song /
candies / embarrass himself and put on the intercom at his school hes sorry / whatever u would like / if all else fails flowers
lol i know not a flower girl but u can also put some together
example: intercom plus song flowers and candy
2006-10-23 14:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by Pedo bear lolz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find out a place she lyks and have them go there 2 gether and talk about it alone, chocolates?believe me, i m not n 2 flowers a lot, but sweets and choco. helps me, and does she lyk 2 read? a really heart-felt poem, card, or even message on the phone helps a lot, even if she doesn't respond immediately...she may also just need sum time...he mite also no a solution, just be nervous or afraid to do it...
2006-10-23 14:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by sturgis 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him first how wrong that was. Next go to the girls house and apologize. Next ask the girl to tell him in his face all the mean things he told her.and see if he likes it.
It's tough but he's got to learn
2006-10-24 10:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by The REBELution! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell us what he did....im 15 and i can tell you what NOT to do...
FLOWERS:IF HE SAID THAT SHE ISNT THE "FLOWER" TYPE IT'S FOR A REASON EITHER SHE REALLY ISNT THAT TYPE OR HES TOO EMBARRASED TO GIVE HER FLOWERS.:-)
CHOCOLATES:every girl loves chocolate but again it depends on what he did....
POEM: are you kidding me???????he's 16.... OH hellz naw! it will make it awkward for them...
SONG:maybe if hes a musicion but no..
if i were this girl i would love for him to call and have a LONG talk with me or come to my house.....he should be sensative,affectionate,and caring..
ps:don't ,make him do something he dosen't want to because it will be plain embarrasing for BOTH of them..
good luck :-)
2006-10-23 16:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How did he hurt her feelings? Did he turn her down or something? In that case, it's just something that she is going to have to learn about life. But if he did it out of rudeness, then he should at least apologize.
2006-10-23 14:35:19 · answer #8 · answered by luvbuggies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did he do to make her cry. This doesn't make him a bad person or necessarily mean that it was his fault. Women are crazy sometimes and there is nothing you can do about it.
2006-10-23 21:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on if shes psycho or on drugs. maybeshe needed it. i was always that way. i'm 15 now so i can tell you that she will get over it. unless he was just flat out being an ***, she probably deserved it.
But if she didnt then he should definitly apologize. you may not be able to say anything to him that'll work.
i love my boyfriend and we are quite compatible. But he's made me cry. it's life...
Just tell him to be real. Tell him to walk right up and kiss her. if she slaps him he should smile. she would laugh. it always works. i cant resist it. email me
Babbsie_101@yahoo.com
2006-10-23 14:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by babbsie_101 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋