2006-10-23 14:05:09 · 8 answers · asked by Leigh J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you dont
2006-10-23 14:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you meant. Was it how do you talk someone OUT OF having kids, or talk someone INTO having kids? Your question was a bit confusing.
Either way, if someone has made a decision about (not) having kids, you'll have a hard time changing their minds. You should just respect their decision and hope it turns out for the best. I don't want kids, and I'd never let anyone convince me otherwise.
2006-10-23 21:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. If they want kids and you don't and your not married to the person and just dating. That's really something to think about. Because if a person really wants kids they really want kids and will do whatever they need to do get a kid. If it's a friend try and point out that it's expensive to raise a kid and tell them to make sure they have the money and job behind them to do it. Be honest with them. That's all you can do.
2006-10-23 21:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by PAT K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your partner wants children and you don't then it's best you tell the truth. Talking someone of out of something that is important to them is not a good idea, it will come back to haunt you in the end.
2006-10-23 21:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont force people into wanting kids, kids come into this world because in my words to my partner, they're made because of wanting to see them grow up and give them all the chances in the world to suceed and were made in her words by 2 special people.....I dont really see myself as that special though but whatever she thinks is fine by me.....anyway, kids should be discussed at length, both the pros and cons need to be thought about before you even think of trying although once in this world they should provide you with a whole lot of love and respect if you can teach them right.
Mitch.
2006-10-23 21:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind them of all the partying they will miss out on while they are changing diapers and sleep deprived, and mention how single friends will leave in droves.
2006-10-24 02:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by auntynoall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them babysit a totally spoiled obnoxious unpotty trained kid for a weekend. that should do it.
2006-10-23 21:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by dread pirate lavenderbeard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DONT... they have to want to.... its their bodies. remember. their money and their time... their lives.
2006-10-23 21:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by zachs mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋