I am so polite to everyone, no matter what race they are. but when I'm out somewhere (walmart for example), it is a rare occasion to see a black woman be polite to me, or say excuse me, or thank you, when I do nice things, or when they push me out of the way so they can walk by. Is it because I'm a blonde? I don't understand it. I've never had a black woman friend even though I have tried.
2006-10-23 13:57:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I'm really not racist. I know the question sounded that way. If I try to see me out of the eyes of an african american woman, I see myself looking very very ditsy because I'm blonde. And btw, I don't have the same problem with any other culture.
2006-10-23 14:08:17 · update #1
i have the same problem totaly get you on this one i have brown hair and blue eyes i aasked a black male friend of mine why i am treated this way buy some black women he said and i say this came from a black man so don't hate me he said it's because white women are taking all the good black man and that black women are feeling like they are not pretty so i don't i think some of the women who push into me or whatever and i just have learned to ignore it and i try NOT to let them spoile the way i think of all black women.
there is rude in every type of person i have probley acted like a snobbing white ***** or a dumb redneck women so
don't let it bother you just try and be a kind good person
2006-10-23 14:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by ~*big mama *~ 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
The majority of u have ignorant answers like u can answer the question. Why don't u ask the question for yourself at that given time Ms. Blondy. U act as if every black woman have a problem. Who cares if a black man dates a white woman. I bet the whites would just as well as the blacks prejudge it. We are not Apes neither. I live in 2 predominately white neigborhoods. One in the city and one in the suburbs where you can count the blacks living there. You have some polite and rude people. That doesn't make me assume I'm hated by white people. But I have some stories you wouldn't beleive however, it doesn't matter. I know people can be ignorant. So you tell me what is their problem, are they mad because I have a house in their neck of the woods? It really doesn't matter and I really don't care. I have a life and it doesn't revolve around people of any color liking me. U need to get a hobby b/c these are very lame questions.
2006-10-23 22:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by monie42003 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Gurl friend, you can't always assume that EVERY black person hates you. I'm not like that. I get along with EVERYBODY. There are white people who don't speak to me either, but I give them the benefit-of-the-doubt. Maybe a person is having a bad day or maybe they are shy or reserved...we never know. Besides you have rude people in ALL nationalities, not just from black people.
2006-10-23 21:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by sunny4life 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Relax Penny!
Try having a little chat with a black woman and you will see how responsive she will be. I think she's waiting on you to take the first step.
Being blond has nothing to do with it..trust me.
2006-10-23 21:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by Roxton P 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think that is a very ignorant statement!
it depends on how you act around people!
I am a black woman, I won't judge you because I don't know you.
but judging by the statement you just made, I can see why someone would dislike you!
Think before you speak!
And you should never try to get people to like you, if you are a likable person, people will already like you!
2006-10-23 21:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by sexyblackmomba 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I feel your pain Peny, Black Sistas never acted nice to me either, I dont know why. I never tried to take their men , only ugly white woman like black men anyway. I did take a white man away from one a long time ago tho...lol
2006-10-23 22:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by biker_babe_goldie 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
hey hi yeah i'm a black woman
maybe it's because you ask ditzy questions like why do black women hate me? trust me, it's not because your blonde. they probably don't hate you. don't flatter yourself they probably don't even think about you.
now...have you met every black woman on the planet? somebody's bound to like you.
wait...maybe not. you kind of sound like a racist idiot
2006-10-23 21:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by lalapalooza 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
As a black man, it is hard to determine why my black sista's may hate you. My experience with white women whom are hated by black women tend to have something in common with each other. They are usually slutty and it's written all over their 4in heels. Now my dear, ask yourself a few questions;
1) Have you slept with her man?
2) Are you trying to sleep with her man?
3) Did you look at her boyfriend while he was in the hair grease isle looking at his doo-grease?
4) Did you wash your butt before you came out of the house?
5) Did you fix your hair? Check your face in the mirror? Establish a deal with mother nature?
No one is perfect! Maybe you are missing something and you don't know what it is. I suggest being different than the rest of your family and try being nice to blacks. Whites who are nice to blacks tend to stick out in the crowd! Try it and get back with me....btw, don't forget to ask yourself those questions.
2006-10-23 21:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by Dan M 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You specifically site walmart....it is my experience that walmart is the lowest common denominator for humans. But Many black broads are angry that so many of the few availble brothers pick white women, so they feel you have it easy, and thus they resent you.
2006-10-23 21:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
probably because they see you are blonde they think you are racist or you are just to pretty dont try to hard ill say the nicer you are the meaner the ill be
2006-10-23 21:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by la naca 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋