why do we have to deal with people treating us like crap and be stuck in bad situations where we have no money and cant move on, how do some of those people get their selves on their feet?
2006-10-23 13:51:24 · 14 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we all have problems. it's how ya deal with them, time and patience and a positive attitude.
2006-10-23 13:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By concentrating on the little things- not the big things. Its all a state of mind. Dance in the rain, laugh at rainbows, and feel the breeze on your face. The thing is, you dont have to deal with the crap- feel sorry for those who treat you like crap. Things will work out, just be patient.
2006-10-23 21:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we do have to deal with people all the time and we will always be stuck in bad situations we may not have any money but we can move on. we need to look at the problem as not just a problem but as a tool that can help us in the future. the main thing though is we need to forgive much much easier said than done but we need to give up the right to hurt ourselves because of what others have done. these people who do move on want it so bad that it hurts and they are tired of hurting and they use it to their advantage because they are strongr
2006-10-23 21:06:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trials and tribulations of life in my opinion were allowed to make us strong, and dependent on our Heavenly Father, or Creator!
Many people make wrong choices in life because they are either running away from who loves them the most, or they're trying to become something other then what they were destined to be.
Life can be hard at times, but peace and rest from those hard times are rewarded also. The answer for getting ourselves on our feet is depending on the one that made them.
Have faith in the LORD, you shall succeed and prosper if you don't give up hope!!
Peace,
Hope
2006-10-23 21:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard for everyone. yesterday there was this girl writing cryptic things and she sounded pretty bad so i took it upon myself to tell her mylife story . i dont have that much time today so first of all the whole self esteme thing needs to be worked on. trust me im sure ive seen darker days than you and if you actually have had worse days than me then im sorry.i have a mind that runs like a freight train on the rampage.i suffer from manic depression/ personality disorder. but through counceling and opening up my mind of how to help myself (2 st. johns wart a day.) i felt stronger and ready to take hold of my life. life is hard but the more you choose to learn from yours and others mistakes the easier things will get. dont let people walk all over you because everyone is equal in sin.
2006-10-23 21:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by solas lethe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr i been there and believe me i have asked myself the same question,if your in a bad situation,move on if you can,if not talk to someone who can help u,i have been in bad situation broke and down and out and pulled myself back out of it again,i think allot of us have at tone time or the other...especially if your young,heck give it a chance,life will improve
2006-10-23 20:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is the only way to really learn and really develop character. I hate the things I have gone through and had to go through. But I love how strong and wise it has made me. I am sending good thoughts your way.
2006-10-23 20:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can only be treated like crap if we let ourselves.....gotta buck up, stand up, don't be taken down, and carry on! Quit whinen!
2006-10-23 20:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is not fare sometimes and people can be rude. my heart goes out to you and yours. If we all could just remember what Jesus said ( Love thy neighbor as thy self ) we all as a whole could make a better world! Just keep on keeping on and looking to him.
2006-10-23 21:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was easy it would be no fun. think of it like driving a motorcycle going straight is boring but winding, hilly roads are a blast
2006-10-23 20:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wont to cry when i read what you saidi merryed to a guy i love soooo much but his family always puts me down and picks on me and wonts to beat me up sometimes they make me cry i feel so hurt its so hard to be with the man of my dreams becuse his family makes me go though sooooo much pain please try to wright me back
2006-10-23 21:05:24 · answer #11 · answered by donna s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋