I broke up w my boyfriend 4 days ago. We broke up before a year ago, and he said he would never come back with me, but he did. We had been together 8 months, where we shared a lot of good and bad things. But the problem is he tought i eas telling him some lies and he told me he couldnt trust me anymore. I swear i didnt lie to him. I miss him, and his friends told me he is really sad. I dont know what to do, cause he doesnt listen to his heart and i know is brain is telling him to stay away from me. What can I do to make him understand i love him and i never lied to him??
2006-10-23 13:48:44 · 6 answers · asked by Dra. Mejía 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont know, talk to him and tell him what a wonderful person you are
2006-10-23 13:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by james w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is exactly what i went through or still going through except i'm a guy. If you love him, just keep loving him and don't lie to him. He has to believe you in the small things and it all starts with the small details that are true, which will eventually lead him to trust you. The most important thing is just dont lie. I know its hard, but you also have to talk about it constantly because there must be reasons for him to think that way and you need to reassure him just like what i did with my Gf. I love her and i dont lie to her even though she thinks i do. If he really loves you then he'll snap and realize that you're true to him and everything will be okay. Hang in there and be true to your feelings. Good luck.....
2006-10-23 20:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by puppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a loser. he said he can not trust u, so what the sense of having a relationship without trust. u really prefer to get back with him and have him accuse u of things for the rest of ur relationship. or do u want someone to trust u enough to tell u his childhood secrets. i would say u need to set the slate clean don't let him make u the reason why the relationship ended. go see him and let him know what's on ur heart, make him feel bad if u have to. and i really hope u did not lie cause if u did that's not good. good luck.
2006-10-23 21:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By reading your other questions about your boyfriend that you have asked....I would say its time to let go.
Yes you are going to miss him...and I don't know how old you are....but trust me you will find the right one for you...and by reading your other posts I don't think he is the one.
Best of luck
2006-10-23 21:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you will take a lie detector test if that is what it going to take. If you really didn't lie then you won't have a problem taking one.
2006-10-23 21:06:47 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a letter.
2006-10-23 20:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋