how many women great (porn star like) sex to hook a man and then after he committed said that the great sex was gone and that the relationship should be based on love not sex and that he should understand. then said that an occasional screw and nothing else should satisify him
2006-10-23 13:43:55 · 9 answers · asked by keithy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is deceiving and although a relationship should be based on love, that does not mean the great sex has to go away for a woman to get her point across and for her to feel loved
2006-10-23 13:49:21 · update #1
there are no kids in this relationship and jobs are not an issue either
2006-10-23 13:50:18 · update #2
for anyone who answers after datedr. i give he flowers on a regular basis, i take her to dinner, i call her to tell her i love her several times a day, i paid some of her adult dau bills, let her drive my new truck, etyc...
2006-10-23 14:17:17 · update #3
I don't think that any women would do that just to hook a guy, but i do know and am one of the woman who don't get or give as much as we used to, but after some time of being together, people start to feel unappreciated, unattractive, un wanted! Alot of affairs start because of this, Looking for someone to notice you, apprreciate you , see you as a real person again.
the fact that you called it an occasional screw, tells me you're lady may not feel like you WANT her any more, Wanting IT is not the same as wanting HER!!!! show her it's her you miss, it's her you want to be close to, Her you want to love. But remember it's not all about sex with us women, we want and need to be touched and kissed and made to feel like it's really only us that can make you this horny, that no other women could make you feel like this. If you make her feel that way- (how long do you have to do all that for?for as long as it takes, and if you have been ignoring her needs- it may take awhile!) WATCH out,you're porn star will be back tonight!!!
2006-10-23 14:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by dreamteam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty messed up. I'd be pissed if a guy did that to me. So no, I never have and hopefully never will use sex to hook um then take it away. That's just wrong. Especially with really good sex. I like sex and believe that it is a very large part of my relationship.
2006-10-23 20:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by me_me625 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably fail to realize that women are much more emotionally connected to sex than men. She was probably all about fulfilling your fantazies before, because she new it made you happy and it made you want her. But now that she realizes that great sex doesn't make you love her more or treat her better she is not as eager to make you happy. If you really cared about her needs (not sexually) and showed that you love her no matter what the circumstances, she would probably reward you, but if you expect her to be your sex slave no matter what, she isn't going to give it to you.
She didn't trap you, she probably thinks you trapped her. She probably thought you were going to be different (or the same) durng marriage and now she is disapointed. So, she doesn't give you that 'extra special'.
2006-10-23 21:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see that happening after you have a baby. you are so exhausted and really don't want another person to touch you after the babys been touching and clinging all day. But no kids yet? that doesnt make sense.
2006-10-23 21:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never done that, but I bet there are tons of women out there that after the babies come and all, sex is pushed to the side and is a treat for the man when he gets some. And so many women why their husbands cheat. DUH
2006-10-23 20:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very strange.
2006-10-23 20:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by fancy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is about normal, always keep your options open......
2006-10-23 20:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by itsa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whateva
2006-10-23 20:49:01 · answer #8 · answered by modelchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.
2006-10-23 20:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋