my best friend is being rude to me! help!!!!!!!
2006-10-23 13:41:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That is not a true friend, i would simply ingore her and possibly find some new friends. True friends are loving and caring, and do not go out of their way to make their friends feel badly. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-23 13:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun...first thing u should do is try to figure out if she's trying to be rude and if so why. Maybe it's not intentional, she's just going through some crap and taking it out on u unintentionally. Or if she is trying to be mean to u then u should ask her why. Maybe it's something that can be resolved, some kinda misunderstanding that u were unaware of that can be fixed if u just talk to her about it. As good as friends as people are things happen, one person does something that pisses the other person off with out realizing it. Just talk to her about it nicely, with concern not contempt. If she's truly ur friend u the issue can be resolved. Maybe she doesn't realize she hurting her feelings. Let her know that she is and give her specific examples of things she's done that have hurt ur feelings. Maybe that'll help.
2006-10-23 13:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by Amethystkorn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously don't think your her best friend, because friends dont treat eachother mean. She might be an agressive person, and doesnt care about your feeling. Get a new friend, play the no talking card, and see what happens? Maybe tell her that until she is nicer, your not going to talk to her. She needs to applogize dont let her walk all over you.
2006-10-23 13:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by GodWillSaveMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the friend is just jealous about something. Might be a boy or something. I say just get a new friend.
2006-10-23 13:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why or get a new best friend.
2006-10-23 13:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve to be around someone who is mean. Stop calling her and being around her and by all means make new friends.
2006-10-23 13:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by PAT K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask if her if she even wants to be friends anymore. If she says telll her u r hurting her feelings. If she says no go find new friends!!
2006-10-23 13:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by dunhate235 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and that she is hurting your feelings. If she doesn't apologize or change then she really isn't much of a friend.
2006-10-23 13:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by Ghostgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find other friends.
2006-10-23 13:43:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD TELL YOUR FRIEND THAT ARE BEING RUDE AND IF THEY CONTINUE TO DO IT THEN YOU SHOULD DUMP THE FRIEND OR WHIP HER DONKEY REAL GOOD AND SEE IF THAT HELPS.
2006-10-23 13:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋