My guy and I had a huge fight tonight...and I got really really upset. To the point that I was screaming, crying, and hyperventilating. I calmed down after a little while, but now I am soooo worried that I have hurt my baby. I am 14 weeks. Could I lose the baby becuase of this? Everytime I have a pain I am worried...I dont know what to do??
2006-10-23 13:39:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Honey, you mention pain, are you having cramps? Have you calmed down now to the point where you are no longer hyperventilating? Do me a favor and fix yourself a snack. I know that the last thing you want to do right now is to eat but it will help to stabilize your blood sugar. You would be surprised how much better you will feel if you have a bite to eat. Don't eat a candy bar or anything.....make it something like a sandwich and a glass of milk.
Having done these things stop and assess how you are feeling.
If you are still feeling unwell then you might want to see about calling the doctor. My strong feeling is that you will be fine.
While it is certainly not good for you to cry and get upset to that extent I seriously doubt that it will hurt the baby. Pregnant women have gone thru awful things, have lived through the death of loved ones and have literally cried until they were sick and their babies were fine. I think it is more the matter of whether or not it is a rare event or an every day event. Stress is not good for you and if this sort of thing were to be happening every few days then I am sure it would interfer with your weight gain and your overall well being. Still, having said that, I do not think that what happened this evening will do you or the baby any harm. It is not good for you but women are made of stronger stuff than that! Believe me "Mother Nature" knew what she was doing when she placed the ability to bring forth life in the hands of women. We are stronger than we look.
Take care of yourself sweetie. It is not good for you to get that upset, don't let things get to you like that. You need to think of your baby and don't "sweat the small stuff". You have a baby to think about now, you are going to be a mother. Pick your battles and make sure it is worth the war before you get all bent out of shape.
Love and Blessings to you and your precious baby.
Lady T~
2006-10-23 13:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Trinity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stress can cause miscarriages, but no, the occassional fight with your guy probably won't be the factor. Continual stress is what does it. Chances are good that no one can go 9 months without having an argument, but you need to ask yourself why you didn't walk away and take a moment at the first sign of increasing anger. That's not healthy for you or your baby or even your guy. This is a very stressful time for you and you need to know that while your baby is fine and protected, what you eat, how you feel and how you react to situations both good and bad will all have an affect on the baby. Calm down, take a deep breath and enjoy life. Above all...don't sweat the small stuff.
2006-10-23 15:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by Allison S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know, I wouldn't assume you have done any harm at this point in your pregnancy. I will say this though. If you have trouble controlling emotions and outbursts (I do) you should discuss this very blatantly with your doctor. Your first trimester of your pregnancy is very very important.
Oh, tell your boyfriend you don't need the STRESS!
Stress has caused many many miscarriages.
I hope this is somewhat helpful. I'm no expert but Ive had many health problems caused or brought on by stress....including a miscarriage.
Take care and try a relaxing bath....
~T~
2006-10-23 13:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by ~*bUtteRFy~*~kISSeS*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a fantastic question my friend. Religion has been a part of mankind since ancient. Religion teaches us the way of life, and the values and Morales to be followed in society. So religion has become very close to us because the history of the religion speaks so. Everybody is proud to be a Hindu, or a Muslim, or a christian and so on. When sensible and sensitive questions are asked people fail to understand that it is the duty of every person to explain and clear the question for the asker who is not trying not to offend the religion but to make sure that his doubts get cleared. So a true follower should not burst out but try to solve the question and make himself look above others.
2016-03-18 23:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently read an article in some parenting magazine saying that being upset or angry really doesn't cause a miscarriage. I highly doubt you will lose the baby. just calm down.
2006-10-23 13:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is highly unlikely you'll lose your baby just because of an emotional outbreak. However you should be aware that your state of mind does have an effect on the baby. You need to rest, be calm, and stay healthy.
2006-10-23 13:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Miscarriage is caused by problems with the baby or placenta, or sometimes because of trauma to the mother... but it takes a BIG trauma. Try to relax, and enjoy your pregnancy!
2006-10-23 13:46:59 · answer #7 · answered by craftladyteresa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok just calm down i did that also when i was pregnant, i lost my baby im not sure if thats what caused it but go to the er and get the baby checked out just to make sure its ok, good luck
2006-10-23 14:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the second trimester you are less likely to lose the baby, be careful though, fights are not good for your well being as well as the baby's
2006-10-23 13:44:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but stress is not good for the baby... don't do it for the sake of your baby... you have to put that baby before you...
2006-10-23 13:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by ILuvMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋