i've started at a new scool. On the first day i met the maths teacher, i was with a group of girls and he winked and smiled at me. He's french. Now, he's always smiling at me, and i've noticed a few glances in my direction he also makes rude jokes like about blonde girls to the class. when i was waiting to go home cuz i was sick he came and sat next to me and made me feel really uncomfotable and he kept look with prying eyes. should i enjoy the attention or...
2006-10-23 13:39:12 · 29 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell your parents.
2006-10-23 13:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful using the word 'Paedophile' . It is a serious accusation to make. French men are kind of sleezy, but surprising as afterall he is a teacher. Speak to your class mates to see what they think, but without being a drama queen. If he smiles at you just don't smile back, as it does give the impressiont hat you also like the attention, which could be misleading. Just make sure you are never alone with him. if you think so strongly about it then speak to your parents immediately, but be careful sounds as if you've already made up you mind on this 'paedophile teacher'!
2006-10-24 00:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by Invisible 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just being friendly. Tell him after class what you think, have a friend present with you, just in case things backfire (try to bring a friend that's not gonna start a rawkus). If he acts all weird, you know you've hit the spot. Unless he touches you, you can't call him a pedophile. If you feel threatened, speak to an adult, but give all the facts, without distorting the truth. It's a hard job to be a teacher. Good luck.
2006-10-23 14:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jazz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you reading too much into this? He may be just a caring teacher making a few jokes. Its hard being a teacher because now everyone shouts out paedophile when one works with children. Maybe he feels that you are ill at ease and is trying to make you feel less tense. It is obvious that you must have been tense if you were sick and all the poor guy was doing was seeing that you were OK.
2006-10-23 13:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you should report him if he makes you feel uncomfortable with his inapt behaviour he is in a position that must not have any doubt about his behaviour he is after all in a position of trust and must not be allowed to abuse his position so speak to your parents or a councillor or anybody who can help if you are wrong you have made a mistake but if you are right you maybe are helping some body else too anyhow that is irrelevant he should not be acting in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable but please tell your parents or who ever you can talk to! Well Ben b aint you just the sort of person who thinks this sort of issue is funny u are seriously warped and should seek some therapy
2006-10-23 13:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by PARADOX 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has he tried to touch you or anyone else? Be cautious of him and tell a parent as soon as you are too uncomfortable. But try not to read too deeply into his affections, he may just be extremely nice. You wouldn't want to ruin his life by reporting him just for a few smiles and glances, but if he get too close to you, and tries to touch you, then ruin away!!!!! Also, tell him that he is making you uncomfortable, and that you will report him if he doesn't cut out the sappy looks and smiles.
2006-10-23 13:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My art teacher does that to me too. he rubs my back when I am drawing, and when I forget to but my name on my drawing, he writes HEIL with a large heart for the dot on the I. I know he doesnt mean any thing by it. He is just doing it to make me laugh. At first I was freaked out about, but I have known him my whole life, and he would never touch me in the wrong places. Yes he had made up a middle name for me, louise, and every time he does roll call, its Mandee Louise.
I think your teacher is doing it because you are new and wants you to feel comfortable in his classroom, and its not working for you. Go up to him after class and sit down with him and discuss it with him, and if the situation doesnt get any better, go to the principal.
2006-10-23 13:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mandee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents about him - the fact that he's making you feel uncomfortable is reason enough.
And he should not be telling rude jokes to a classful of kids.
2006-10-23 18:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he makes you feel uncomfy then my best advice is to ry and keep your distance from him, but i would not say he's a paedo, he has not touched you or tried to touch you, he may just be a friendly teacher with your best interests at heart, but if he does try then report him, i doubt he's a shady one, i just think he's doing his duty as a teacher, plus he is french and the french act differently than us English, it may just be the way he is
2006-10-23 14:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inform your parents and the head teacher. It sounds like this man is abusing his power of trust.
2006-10-23 13:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by dollybird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents , and the school aaauthorities. That is how they get by , people remaining silent. Don't for your sake and other studens throw this bad apple in the trash now:)>
2006-10-23 13:43:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋