2006-10-23 13:10:53 · 18 answers · asked by Tgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He was not the man i thought he was. some people really do change when you say " I DO". He was there, but never really there. if you know what i mean. some times two can be as lonley as one!!!!
If you are facing divorce,be strong, follow you're heart and God bless.
2006-10-23 13:48:10 · answer #1 · answered by dreamteam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, why is my husband divorcing me after 20 years together?
Not a simple answer to that one.
Personally, I think it's a mid-life crisis on his part.
He's always been a rather selfish man and a workaholic who seems to have this insane need to be the best, the top, to win in EVERYTHING.
I got left in the dust because I'm not very ambitious.
We're also complete and total opposites and I know those attract, but, in the long run, they repel.
2006-10-23 20:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 6 months and found that the marriage was over before it began due to unrealistic expectations from both of us that we hoped would "just work out with love". Additionally, different perspectives on finances is an immediate "nuptial killa"
2006-10-23 20:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by velvetlizard69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He decided he wanted someone younger, prettier, thinner, and less boring. He had no idea that she was seeing 4 other men. He was the laughing stock of the town for 8 years until he figured it out. At least I got to see him get what he deserved for breaking our family apart.
2006-10-23 20:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am divorced because my ex was emotionally and physically abusive and the last time he hit me, was defitely the last. Enough was enough and I had to start thinking about me and my future. If I had of stayed I'm sure I wouldn't have had one
2006-10-23 20:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by tray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just realized that he wasn't the one for me. He couldn't give me what I needed. It got to the point that I didn't feel any sincerity when he told me he loved me. We were 18 and 20 when we got married. We were 21 and 23 when we seperated and haden't had sex for 6 months. How wrong is that??
2006-10-23 20:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by me_me625 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupidity on my part, immaturity on my part, poor communication on my part, insensitivity on my part. The only thing she did wrong was to marry the wrong guy. She told me on our wedding day just hours before the wedding, that she had been with another man. With all my family, her family, my Friends, her Friends, and 80% of my church in attendance. I thought I could still make it work. I was stupid. The blame is mine.
2006-10-23 20:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soon to be, she told me she didn't have it in her to love like me the way I loved her. I wish I could get the good times back!! I'm really in love with my wife and can't seem to let her go.
2006-10-24 01:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person I married was absolutely not right for me.
2006-10-23 20:13:00 · answer #9 · answered by eagfan5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She caught me with my hand in the cookie jar.
2006-10-23 20:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋