People have been answering my question in " OMG PLEASE HELP Me" and I really appreciate it but it isn't easy just to go up to someone and talk to them. Its very akward! And you cant just say "Hi" cause then he will no i like him and then it will be wierd just to see him if he doesn't like me. So does anyone know any tips to get HIM to talk to ME?
2006-10-23 13:06:37 · 9 answers · asked by Teen Help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honesty! I like that in a person. Still you are going to have to break out of your comfort zone just a bit. You know what you said here would go well on a note dropped in his locker. Tell him that you like him and are mature enough to be in a growing relationship. (Tell him I said so) However, if your looking to see if he will know it's you, don't sign it. If he comes to you and asks (first), he's yours for sure. If he goes to someone else first, then you gotta lot of work cut out for you. Specially if it's a guy he goes to, lol.
2006-10-23 13:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy.....just give him signals. This way when he picks up on your signals he'll feel confident enough to talk to you first. Think about it - he's proabably feeling just the same as you are. Little signals, like smiling when he walks past or giving him a wink....or if you pass each other just say a quick 'hi' - saying hi doesn't automatically say you have the hots for someone......it just means you are sociable and confident - guys like that. Work with what he does when you see him - i mean if you see him reading a book or somethin, stroll past and comment - ' Good book that one....do you like it so far?' or somethin like that..... a little comment can open a whole new relationship between you - so take a chance - all he can do is say no & trust me....the word 'no' will not kill you :)
2006-10-23 13:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by bellajezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some balls and talk to the guy!! If you like him and want him to know, how do you plan on doing that if you can't even talk to the guy. The butterflies and nervousness is the best part. Cuz after you've been with someone for a while , that starts to fade away.
2006-10-23 13:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by imasooite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get somebody to talk to you, is to talk to them. And walking up and saying Hello to somebody does not mean you like them. I'm pretty sure you have spoken to people who you don't have a Crush on. The weirdness you are feeling is coming from your mind.
2006-10-23 13:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heyy I answered there and I know how you feel! Here are some tips
1.drop your books
2.Talk to any of his friends that you are comfortable with
3.If he says something in class support it
4. Show off, at your talent
5.Let him know your available, if he likes you, he will ask you out!
Good luck, I hope these tips help, I will try them to, Im in the same situation, good luck!
2006-10-23 13:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ineffective homecoming queen.. or A WITCH - all you like is a black outfit, a cape (could be a trash-can liner!) and a hat A CHEERLEADER - consumer-friendly: placed on fairly some makeup, a activities blouse, a short skirt, fairly some makeup and your hair in pigtails. carry pompoms! (you are able to quite make those, using strips of paper and an elastic band)
2016-10-02 21:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by spies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To quote the guys rules. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!
But if you can't just say it, smile at him and alwayss try to be in his sight. Learn to flirt. But remember the guys rule above, don't alway expect him to read your mind as guys are not mind readers. It is best to be bold and approach him, he may be shy too.
2006-10-23 13:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by rstump1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get him to talk to you ... hmmmmmmmmmm.... just make sure you grab his attention when walking past him or something on a daily basis.. make sure he notices you and eventually he will be like she is everywhere and then he will come up to you and ask you questions.. then you will be able to tell if he likes you the same way.. just don't throw yourself at him, be patient
2006-10-23 13:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you won't speak to him you're pretty much S.O.L. If you can't at least be friendly and speak to him why should he WANT to talk to you?
2006-10-23 13:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋