We love and then fight. Cops get called, restraining orders, etc.. I'm the guy, do I love drama or does she? My current G-Friend is cranking me and I know its her... She's tricking on me all the time.. I had my cell phone when the crank call came in and I actually watched her through her window pick the phone up and crank me... How can I get her on video making crank calls? What should I do to stop meeting the drama types?
2006-10-23 13:02:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Perhaps you need some counseling so you can realize your self worth and feel better about yourself. This has more to do with you than it does the women. you are choosing them, so you really need to do something with yourself, realize that you deserve better. and until you do you will keep picking the wrong women. Often in relationship we choose partners that are as sick as we are. Find out why you feel you don't deserve better and do something about it What are you getting out of this drama, something or you would not continue to deal with it. Get a grip on yourself. Good luck and God bless.
2006-10-24 01:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you are a drama type, too. Not that all of this nonsense rests squarely on your shoulders, but if you weren't into it, you wouldn't get yourself involved in these sorts of relationships. I mean, honestly, video-taping your girlfriend making a crank call to you? That's seriously effed up. Tell her to stop cranking you, and don't take her calls until she respects that. What's with the Aaron Spelling video tape bullsh!t?
So, to stop meeting the drama types, stop being a drama type. What gets you off about these relationships? Why do you live in a soap opera in your mind? Why is the first solution to a minor problem that you can think of so needlessly complicated and dramatic? Until you can figure that out and change that aspect of yourself, I suspect you'll keep dating these sorts of women.
2006-10-23 13:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by random6x7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, get a restraining order. Change your numbers and your id's. Move if you have to. Get away from her.
Then, work on yourself. You attract them quite simply, because of the similarities you have with them.
Listen to Jim. You need to go through a healing if you want to stop hurting. When you begin work on yourself, you need to be alone. Take a break from all women. You seem to be attracting obsessive types. Until you learn to understand and respect yourself, you will stop attracting them. Take a break.
2006-10-23 18:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're looking in all the wrong places, mate. Leave the bars and internet alone. You can't find love in those places. When its the right time and place it will happen. Don't fret over it and before you know it you'll meet the girl of your dreams.
2006-10-23 13:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by kiwi_mum1966 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are CoDependent. Read some Melanie Beadie books, get therapy, and join a support group. Don't ever date anyone from your support group-- ever. You should also not date or sleep with anyone for the first year you are in recovery. It helps a hell of a lot to stop talking to all your bad g.f.'s cold turkey, too.
2006-10-23 13:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-08 19:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it must be bad...Get the **** away from her now!!!!!!!! you should have seen all the little signs saying BAD all around pointing at her. other than the ones that all said beautiful, great perfect...etc...i had to learn this the hard way.
2006-10-23 13:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by babbsie_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont meet them online, bars,some where sketchy like that
2006-10-23 13:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by Gloria M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋