Have I got the worst sister in law in the world?
She is rudest b**ch I have ever met, I have cried over her so many times. She has bagged my culture in front of me, told me my people were all wh**es and tried to run my fiances life. She is a sneakly, sly, snivelling b**ch who thinks because she is my fiances sister she can run his life and mine too.
Today I fought back and I'm too scared of confrontation to go over there tonight. But it's my fiances birthday and we have to go over there. My fiance fight back to her, she dishes out sh** on us but can't take it when he throws it back to her. My fiance and I go out with friends all the time & she complains that we dont care about her because we dont visit her every day (would you though?!?) and that no one cares about her. She whinges and complains that she has had it hard all her life. I told her to not mention our confrontation today because its his birthday and I dont want to ruin it. I love him but cant stand her!
2006-10-23 13:00:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My question is though, how can I go about tonight when I see her after the confrontation we had (I told her we have our own lives and friends and she cant come first all the time)?
2006-10-23 13:04:51 · update #1
Well at least your hunny fights back too and doesnt' take his sister's side on it. that's a plus.
however with in laws, there really is nothing you can do as I have the worst mother in law ever. my hubby doesnt' even like his own mother. the only time she calls is when she wants to pick a fight with him about us living so far away.
Just keep happy thoughts, and kill her with kindness. you never know she may grow to like you or at least be tolerable in the future.
good luck with her
2006-10-23 13:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by sesamenc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her get her way, if you leave your fiancee because of her rude behavior, it'll show she has won, once again.
She only wants him to suffer with her misery for some reason that she's miserable. And, because you're making him happy, she wants to ruin your esteem as well.
All of you need to sit down and have a talk with her. Explain you're not going to "gang up" on her but that she needs to realize you're all grown adults and that you don't need to visit everyday, you've got busy lives, and that the two of you are engaged, she has to deal with it.
It's obvious your fiancee is on your side so as long as you two stand by eachother, all should go well.
2006-10-23 13:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about time you got some backbone. Honey some people needs to feel important in everybody's life. She might be lonesome. Where is her man? Can't keep one huh? Hey go and enjoy yourself and be kind to her. If she steps out of place put her back in place. You know nice nasty like. Smile and move around the room. Don't stay in her face too long cause you know where it can lead to. Good Luck and GOD BLESS!!!!!
2006-10-23 13:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by kryptonnite2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you sound so much like me.I hate to confront people..But I'm up there in years now and have found a way to drive them nutts...When they get really serious I look to them and tell them they will survive. When someone comes at me being mean I just tell them that when you are ready to talk like a normal human being then we will talk.I also have decided life is to short to let one person upset me enough to ruin my day or life...They are not worth it so stop letting them pull u into their hectic life style,,,Good luck hon
2006-10-23 13:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl what u need to do is confront her about what she is doingg and let her know what she is doin and if she tries to fight u then fight her back. you shouldn't be scared of her because she is your fiances sister and talk to your fiance and see what yawl can do cause that should not be going on like that. That's going to be
your sister in law so talk it out.
2006-10-23 13:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your going to have to make your mind up to deal with this woman if you are going to marry her brother....dont sweat the confrontation you had with her today...just go over and act as nothing has happened...if she acts up it will look bad on her part not yours
2006-10-23 13:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you will care about her and visit her when she treats you and those you care about with respect.
2006-10-23 13:02:53 · answer #7 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋