how do you know if you are not a virgin, i have sex with my finger, ive never used a tampon, and, my finger cant go in all the way
2006-10-23 12:54:57 · 27 answers · asked by angel 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Loosing your virginity means that you have had sex with someone else, a lot of people say sex is when a penis penetrates a vagina, however of course this is ignoring other forms of sex such as oral sex or anal sex, how women have sex and how homosexual couples have sex. It is down to you to determine what you think sex is, but whatever you decide loosing your virginity still means having to have had sex with another person, and you will hopefully know if you have had sex or not with another person.
People used to think that if a girls hymen broke it means they are not longer virgins, this is not true, girls can break their hymens from any sort of penetration (such as masturbation or use of internal menstrual options like tampons or menstrual cups) or they can be broken from activities like horse riding. Some girls are also not born with hymens, or at least not full hymens, so hymens being in tact or not is not a good indication of whether or not someone is a virgin or not. A girl's hymen breaking can be painful and involve bleeding, but it is also just as likely to be painless or even pleasurable when your hymen breaks.
If you don't know if your hymen is in tact you can look by sitting comfortably and using a mirror to look at your vulva (external part of your genitals) to see the vaginal opening. The hymen is different from girl/woman to girl/woman but usually if in tact it will look like a ring of flesh around the opening to your vagina where as if broken it will look like flaps of skin around the vaginal opening. There is a good site that shows images, not photos, of the hymen so you know what to look for here - http://www.healthystrokes.com/hymengallery.html
2006-10-24 01:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kasha 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Virgin.
2016-03-18 23:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think back, and try really hard to remember. . . .
Can you remember a time when there was a penis in your vagina?
If you answered yes, then you are NOT a virgin.
If you answered no, then you ARE a virgin.
Seriously, forget about the hymen thing, even if you have broken your hymen, you are still a virgin.
2006-10-23 13:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a virgin as long as you have not had vaginal intercourse. Using a tampon or masturbating will not change that, in fact it is a myth that your hymen can easily be broken by things other than sex. Only about 50% of the time does the hymen break the first time a girl has sex; therefore it is not a good indicator of virginity.
2006-10-23 12:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't had sex, you are a virgin.
I hope this question is a joke, I would hate to know there is someone that doesn't know if they are a virgin or not.
2006-10-23 13:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by Rhonda 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your still a virgin another words you have to have sex a boy to not be a virgin okay.
2006-10-23 13:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you have never had sex with a man, then you are a virgin.
2006-10-23 12:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only way to stop being a virgin is to have sexual intercourse. Period. Your finger doesn't count, and neither does your tampon. There is only one way to stop being a virgin, so you ought to know for sure whether you still are one.
2006-10-23 12:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by nbsandiego 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you are still a virgin.
you have to have sex with a guy and not yourself to not be a virgin.
2006-10-23 12:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by m_harvery 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
youre a virgin until a boy sticks something other than a finger there
2006-10-23 12:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by pdudenhefer 4 · 8⤊ 0⤋