2006-10-23 12:54:12 · 14 answers · asked by Sierra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he was smoking before you started going out, there isn't anything you can do, you knew what you were getting into. You could always suggest that he stops smoking for your health, but I wouldn't push the issue after that.
If he started smoking after you got together you have more "complaining room." Id pester him about it for awhile and if he didn't change his mind I'd give him an ultimatum - you or smoking.
If he doesn't stop, and your getting sick often, break up with him. Your health (and the money it costs to fix it) isn't worth it. If you were to get married you'd have to deal with it the rest of your life.
2006-10-23 12:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by bumbleleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a smoker with friends who have asthma and I never smoke in the same room as them. I go outside, or into a more remote room and close the door if they're at my place. That's just common courtesy,apart from showing some consideration and care for your friends, and you should expect no less from your boyfriend. Quitting smoking is really hard, but leaving the room or going outside to smoke isn't.
2006-10-23 13:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anna S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...
Because of the fact that your boyfriend smokes and you have asthma, I think that you are the one that shouldn't tolerate it, since it is jeapordizing your health. I believe that if you talk to him, you can try reasoning with him to at least decrease his smoking or stop all-together when he is around you.
There is no reason really for a person to smoke unless that is the only thing supporting them in life (which is ironically a contradiction).
If he does that, and stops around you, then he actually cares for you and wants you to stay healthy. If he doesn't do anything, there is seriously something up and you need to talk to him more. If he doesn't budge, I say that since he doesn't respect that part of you, he won't respect any other part of you.
But best of wishes as to whatever you do. ^_^;;
2006-10-23 13:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by endlessly_waiting_in_the_rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 03:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to break up with him over this. what you could do is ask him that if he would mind not smoking around you. like if your in the car going some place. there is no reason he cant wait until you get to where you going and light up out side. if he cares about you this should not be a problem.
2006-10-23 13:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel. Let him know that it makes you sick, litterally. Show him all the nasty things that smoking does to your body. And tell him you'll help him quit.
2006-10-23 12:58:03 · answer #6 · answered by imasooite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u can get really sick if he keeps smoking and he might stop, if he dosent the best for your health is to break up with him.
2006-10-24 13:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really cares about you, he'll understand that his smoking harms you and he'll stop when you ask him to. But if he's choosing his cigs over you, you need to dump him girl!
2006-10-23 12:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur bf loves u.he shld refrain from smoking in front of u..at least..or he try his best to stop smoking...
if he nv do anything..i think u can give up on him...he not worth
2006-10-24 02:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by dior babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smoking is bad. make him stop. he's harming you and your fertility. 10 times as much as he's harming himself. second hand smoke can cause heart disease, lung cancer deaths, BAD RESPIRATORY PROBLEMS, respiratory tract infections, INCREASES THE NUMBER AND SEVERITY OF ASTHMA ATTACKS. ya. second hand smoke kills too.
2006-10-23 13:01:46 · answer #10 · answered by KEiKo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋