this is a serious question. my father wasn't around much as i was growing up, so i've kinda had to teach myself alot of stuff he should of been there to teach me.
but the stuff i still don't know is what attracts girls to guys, i'm 19, and i've only been with 2 girls, and they were hardely what i would call relationships. it makes me feel lonely, and, odd to be honest.
most guys i know, including my brother, had been with 7 or 8 girls by my age.
serious answers only please, no piss-takers
2006-10-23 12:47:41 · 9 answers · asked by Brutal_Yet_Beautiful 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
i think, if i knew some good points, then i could save myself alot of embarresment and emotional hurt
2006-10-23 12:48:34 · update #1
Intelligence, some understanding of girls (girls love a guy who can understand them, their mood swings et al and how to treat them), a good listener;
good looks, confidence (confidence makes up for not-too-good looks), an interest in them - a girl is easily attracted to a guy who will make her feel like a queen AND MEAN IT 'cause if you're just pretending you'll be found out and hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!
Hope this helps!
2006-10-23 23:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by J.Christie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UK or US Citizenship, a House, Money.
Perhaps you are looking for the wrong things, shared interests, friendship, trust, even a shared background can be a good springboard for a fulfilling relationship.
At the end of the day an expensive car, smart suit, a cultured accent has to be the way to pull, but I guess these options are not open to you. Fall back position has to be single mums, they have limited options but usually have their own house or flat, and it takes but a minute to fit a bolt to the bedroom door to keep junior out during passion, just make sure you take precautions or you could end paying maintenance for someone Else's kid.
Mind you Muslim type arranged marriages are probably the best way to have relationships, Not a Muslim I married a distant Cousin following a matchmaking effort by another relative and we are still together after 20 years and still friends and still want to be together long after what initial passion there was had evaporated.
2006-10-23 13:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by "Call me Dave" 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love guys that are interested in them..... and believe me when you meet someone you really like this comes natural. Girls like honest guys who like to chat and who make them feel special....... a good line is always treat a girl like a princess! Girls are attracted to guys that are confident and chatty, also a winning smile always helps.
Do you have an older male friend...... grandfather, uncle.... why dont you ask your brother what his 'tricks' are, im sure he would be happy to boast..... you can take these tips and work them round to suit your own personality. Is there a neighbour, or a person at work.
I dont think you sound odd maybe just shy....... and lets face it most people start in relationships, when young, not knowing what to do or how to act....its normal. I remember i was shy when i was younger....... funny that as you grow older your confidence grows and believe me you will be prob more choosey! It is lonely being on your own but it is a time to discover and grow.
Good luck on your mission.
Ps wish i was 19 again!!!!!! Best year of my life.
PPS. Maybe if you could get chatting with some girls as friends they will keep you updated and informed........ girls like nothing better than to advise boys on the questions you are asking. And hey i hope if my son has your struggles he will come and speak to his 'old' wise mum!!!!!!!
2006-10-23 13:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just to reiterate; its not about the number of girls you were with. numbers don't mean nothing! your brother could have been with 20 girls. look at wilt chamberlain. allegedly he slept with 20,000. however, u left this earth a lonely man. its never about quantity but QUALITY. they type of woman u like and are attracted to.
as for what girls like, physical attraction is there of course. but it's the type of person you are; personality, character. these two things are significant to women. you can look like justin timberlake but act and behave like dennis rodman or george bus. u would not get a girl. its all on the insides my friend, the type of guy u are and how u treat the lady
2006-10-23 12:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by wizeguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously just be yourself and dont judge what others have done on how you should be yourself, just because your brother has had loads of girls doesnt mean you should have, chances are a lot of those girls hate him now or are still wondering what happened. i cant give you any pointers on what girls look for as they never look for the same thing, just be yourself and get out there. hope you find the one for you :D
2006-10-23 12:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of money.
No joke. If you're rich it won't matter.
Also famous. Women have a thing about clinging to people that accomplish things and act like they did something too.
2006-10-23 12:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by GG Alan Alda 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they look 4 what u r n how u act n about ur life n ur body n everythin n just be ur self..
2006-10-23 12:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by upstatecutie90 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mussels smell good,nice breath,good manners, nice dresser,good personality
2006-10-23 12:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by uimblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sense of humour, money, romance.. you know all that same old garbage
2006-10-23 12:49:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋