A man in a steady 4year relationship,who engages continuously in sexual intercorse with other women but conciously doesnt get emotionaly involved with the other women but loves the steady one,doeas he REALLY love?is it really possilble/what do mostly men think?
2006-10-23 12:23:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
True love is dedicated ONLY to you. Why? When he's cheating on you he's not even thinking on you. When you're in love you think of that person 24/7. End of discussion.
2006-10-23 13:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if what this guy is loving is the fact that he can screw around and still have a solid, decent, loving woman loyally waiting for him and him alone.
What if the shoe were on the other foot? What if the woman in the steady four-year relationship engaged continuously in sexual intercourse with other guys? Do you think this man would tolerate that?
Somehow, I doubt it!
I'd cut this guy loose as quickly as possible! You deserve way more than this and there ARE men out there who appreciate a good woman!
On a purely practical note, you, in fact, are sleeping with everyone he sleeps with (and everyone all those women have slept with!)! These days you could be putting your life at risk!
Love means never having to say you're sorry. HIV-AIDS is a death sentence.
2006-10-23 19:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by pat z 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't say that he loved the steady person of 4 years.That is in no way LOVE !
What would he do or say if it was the other way around?
The majority of men would LOVE to be in his position...Have their cake and eat it too.So, asking men what they think is or should be out of the question!
I personally think that love is a two way street it comes with values.
1.Being Honesty
2.Being Loyal
3. Being Faithfullness
None of which the guy is doing.When you are in LOVE you in no way have a desire to have sex with anyone but the person you are in love with.
Answer: KICK HIM TO THE CURB.!!!
As my husband would say: There is only one thing a cheater loves and thats CHEATING !
Not necessarily in that order.
2006-10-23 19:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by tbrat2u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well....maybe "the man" is afraid of commitment, by being with one person for the rest of "his" life. Or maybe it's the excitement of being with other women that makes "him" eager to do it. If "he" really loves the steady one, "he'll" stop sleeping around and be happy with the one "he" has.
2006-10-23 19:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by sassygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Thats not true love. More like infatuation. If it was true love he would only have eyes for the steady one.
2006-10-23 19:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by Candace T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did he cheat.ever ask yourself that? do you give Oral Sex to completion, and not just in bed, outdoors, in the car movies, in front of a porno at home, basically anywhere he wants it, Anal sex, if you are not doing it...get with it or someone will and you will lose him, BDSM, public sex, suggest dogging...loads of sites on the net..basically a happy man does not stray.give him sex whenever and wherever he wants xxxx you will be his Queen I promise you....oh! Ignore the religious nutters and fat puritan bitter singletons that post and the nerdy guys..they are creepy xx
2006-10-23 19:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO NO thats a dumb question if he was doing that you would have to yell and scream at him he doesn't love you if he is doing that so don't think so but make sure its true before doing something!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-23 19:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by ~Lost Gurl~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there must be something missing out of the steady relationship.because if there wasnt,you would not be cheating.am i right or what?????
2006-10-23 19:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_4_dale 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a loser...and any girl who puts up with it needs their head checked!
2006-10-23 19:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by hello hello! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quite often.
And with many people.
2006-10-23 19:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋