well i have a boyfriend and we have been together for a year and 1 month...today he got jealous because this guy was talking to me....and he started to ignore me.....i kept trying to talk to him but he wouldnt listen. i dont know why he is geting mad when girls talk to him and he talks to them and i dont say anything.....my friend says i should give hima taste of his own medicine and ignore him o show him how it feels....another says to tell him to be such a jealous boyfriend...im not sure what to do....any advice?
2006-10-23 12:02:51 · 9 answers · asked by aw_dw4ever 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Jealousy is fear based insecurity. Either he accepts you have the need/right to talk with other males as friends; and finds the strength within himself to trust you and accept this. Or you let him have the control he is trying to have over you; you change your life to make him happy. If you change to make him happy this time expect it to happen again and again and again.....he has found someone he can control!! Be careful ....listen to those subtle messages..they are there for a reason. What seems small now will be major in your life someday!!
2006-10-23 12:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lasr Lars 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has insecurities just like anyone else, he shouldn't be being immature and ignoring you, it could be good to give him a taste of his own medicine in some ways but it could also turn out bad. Playing games is never win-win. Let him know that it bothers you and that you're with him and you've never shown him that you have interest in any other guys (if that is the case) and that you guys are equal, so if he can talk to girls you can talk to guys also. Hope I helped! =D
2006-10-23 19:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by xobigstarxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him up, and say now you know how I feel, when you are talking to the girls. Which is silly on both of our parts, they are just friends, and that is life, we are always going to have friends. so we both need to understand this, and this is a lesson we can learn. That they are just friends, nothing for us to get jealous about!
2006-10-23 19:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time a girl talks to him ignore him and see how he feels dont suck up to him. or tell him that the guy was talking to you, you werent talking to him or tell him :) that he must be a jealous boyfriend for being so freakin paranoid about everything. :) remeber love is a battlefield. (like that 80s song you know)
2006-10-23 19:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there, to you it seems ok, and to him the same. But deep down you have to realize the bottom line. Why does he do it, and why do you. A relationship should be sacred, though it may not be anymore. If your intentions are harmless, what are his. Or what are the both of yours. Are you truly commited?
2006-10-23 19:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by Randall L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels insecure, or he loves you too much that's why he's jealous. My boyfriend is like that too. Talk to him.
2006-10-23 19:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop acting like a child, and grow the f*ck up!
2006-10-23 19:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he doesnt let you ahng out with other guys, you shouldnt go out with him!!!!!! find anoither guy who appreciatees who you hang out with
2006-10-23 19:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by Miss.Patton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cares about you he will get over it..
2006-10-23 19:05:25 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋