She has apparently got pretty fond of porn;;;
She won't snap out of it....also she is urgin me to see...
What can I do to help her..that porn is not reality?
2006-10-23 11:56:22 · 17 answers · asked by jin_ale 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It depends on your age....
If you are still a student...well....uhh...yeah...
but if you are over the age limit...why care?
If your friend is close...have a talk or ask other people to help only IF watching porn is affecting her life....
But if it doesn't...just live her be...
And if you don't like to watch it...just say I don't want to...
2006-10-23 18:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by vicizav_v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not supposed to be reality and I hope she doesn't think that. There's nothing wrong with watching porn as long as it's legal. If she has a problem and it's affecting her life in negative ways then there are AA type organizations for that, and you should recommend that she check out a meeting. And offer to attend. But if she doesn't have a problem then you need to back off. If she urges you to watch it and you're not interested, tell her so and ask her to please respect your views on it and stop asking.
2006-10-23 18:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by cb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she found something in porn that she is not getting at home. Porn is not bad or nasty as closed minded people will say. Try watching it with her to see what she sees in it or wants out of it. Be of a open mind because you may find something out that you may or may not want to find out.
2006-10-23 19:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a support group, maybe say you're going to throw her a party and then when she gets there sit her down with her closest friends and just talk about it. Chances are shes either not happy with any of her current realationships and is feeling lost and confused, or isn;t sure of herself. If she sees that people are worried about her, she'll probably snap out of it. Help her find something elese that'll help her deal with the same problems.
2006-10-23 19:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by getshorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could start by sitting down with her and show her that each scene is not real. Go through the horrible details with her scene by scene. You should point out everything not real.
That will show her.
Or.... she's watching it for entertainment and enjoys it. Good luck with the porn business. Tell Ron Jeremy I said hi.
2006-10-23 18:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jeromy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone does look at porn sometimes, but an addiction is not healthy. tell her that what she is doing is not right and that if she feels the need for some sort of nastiness, do it for real
2006-10-23 18:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by dramateen23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u both are close and u don't like it let her know that and also express ur concerns to her and let her know your worried about her most of the time it will work, but porn is one of Americas
top addictions
2006-10-23 19:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by SomeOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their own thing and if she enjoys porn that's up to her but if you don't care for it tell her it's not how you roll.
2006-10-23 19:02:45 · answer #8 · answered by peanutmanslo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a choice between the blue pill and the red pill?
2006-10-23 18:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by Gyan Asamoah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your problem..
Look at the porn with her...
2006-10-23 18:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋