Latley he has been acting different and he used to be like some mans man type of guy but now he's all into appearance, and he's constantly talking about the girls he works with also, latley we fight about it alot and as soon as we get in any little fight he wants a " break" infact the other day we took one it was the 1st time in like a year we slept in different houses but the next day he was calling me up trying to act like thats not what he wanted. Should I be worried? He's jelous as it is I can't even go tanning anymore because my x bf goes to the same place. I know he loves me and I can't see him cheating on me but why is he acting so different? should I be concerned?
2006-10-23 11:51:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1) Do you trust him? If he's around a lot of women, you need to trust him. Get over your insecurities.
2) If he's been changing for his job, ask him about it. Talk to him. COMMUNICATE.
Basically you two need to communicate. Don't get needy, and be honest with yourself. Do you REALLY want to be with someone who changes himself around completely for a $9/hour job?
LEARN HOW TO COMMUNICATE NOW!
2006-10-23 11:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is playing games with you. He thinks he can have his cake and eat it too. Sounds like he loves all the attention he is getting at work from all the girls and he isnt getting that from you, so he acts arrogant and wants a break. You know what, just drop by his work one day. Dont even tell him your coming and see how he acts with you at work. If he introduces you to his co-workers as his gf and is lovey dovey to you, you have no concerns. But if he acts the opposite, then I would step away from that relationship. You dont need that, there are tons of guys out there who dont have those kinds of issues.
2006-10-23 11:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by lpogue2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never pictured my boyfriend cheating on me either. We were together for 5 years and then he started working as a cook in a restaurant with lots of girls. within 8 months i had caught him cheating. he tried telling me he didn't know why he did it and that he loves me,and for the jealous thing it's him feeling guilty for something whether it being something he did or something he thinks about and he's afraid you might do something or feel the same way. So yes i say be concerned and keep and eye on him. If he keeps pulling that crap get rid of him.
2006-10-23 12:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by black pearl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's acting different, believe it or not, because he is getting advice by the girls he works with and they might tell him some crazy stuff or some good stuff. He is into appearance because he sees that girls like guys who dress good so he is starting to dress good because of you, and because he works at guess and that single role there is dressing the part, he is trying to look good for you not because he wants girl he just want other girls to admire what you have, and since he is with girls now he might just take "breaks" as something they told him that they do to their guys so he would crawl back, but since you don't it's the opposite, all you should be concerned about is them turning him into one of them.
2006-10-23 12:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by zkull_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I am A guy..He is probably playing around a little....Cover you eye's NOW...He pro bally is seeing new meat....He has had you for a while so he needs to spread his Oats ..He is just being adventurous...See us guys can watch a program once and that's it for us...You gal's will watch a movie over and over again still crying over the same stupid Love scene that us guy's find funny after the first time...You need to spruce up your game...It is to easy when you think you got something to let yourself go. Back up... THINK.. Why did you look so good for him before..No you got a routine.. It go's like this.. you Probably get better dressed for Church that you do for him...RIGHT GUY"S!!! Make it new!! Make it fun!! Do thing's for him that you wouldn't ordinarily do...Make it a challenge..When you go somewhere that he knows your going get Dressed up...When you leave He will think why are you dressing that way...Turn the tables around...Guy's lov a good challenge that is why we do the stupid things with are buddies...Get back to Basics...With that Girl Mind you got you can really mess us up..Don tell him I told you this...Us guy's stick together......Mr.BIG
2006-10-23 12:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by bullsweat007@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this question, you obviously don't know or trust him enough. What good is a relationship with you asking this question? Tell him to find out if any of them are bi and have him invite them over, maybe you won't want him afterward...LOL
2006-10-23 11:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by llltazslleyeslloflltrullblulll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur worried then that means u dont trust him & nop u dont !
probably he is cheating n if u ask he wont tell u the truth no-one does
all u need to do is talk to him n if he gets defensive then there is ur sign
best wishes to u in finding the truth
2006-10-23 11:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by axlrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-23 11:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by sexyblu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you look good i would not worry be if you are a dog then you are in trouble or he is black then you are in trouble to
2006-10-23 12:00:43 · answer #9 · answered by mike m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like another gay to me.
2006-10-23 11:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by R & B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋