me friend is 20 and see never used to go out till about 3 years ago when i started hanging around with her. Now she has made some new friends and left me out, she keeps sending me txts like wuu2? im having a luagh am i just really jeasous or is see being a Cow. if u think im jeasous can u help me find ways of getting over my jeasouly??
2006-10-23 11:43:38 · 28 answers · asked by xx-bbz-xx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
move on huni, she is not a friend, she is a user! and hey dont worry about the spelling i get like that at 2am.lol ut if you remember click the spell check before posting then you wont get so much stick.xxx
2006-10-23 13:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of these people are giving you straight answers and some of them are just being jerks. That is about the cleanest word I could think of seeing as I do not want to loose the right to answer these questions. In answer to your question, she is not treating you right and you should try to make some new friends. If she is like that you can do better.
2006-10-23 12:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by golden rider 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People grow and change. It's hard to move on, you don't want to give up the friends you have, but the new ones are fun too. I would just accept what that friend offers and let it go. I know it hurts. I have only one friend and her bf is a waste of space, but she can't see that.
2006-10-23 11:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she texts u just say that u r otherwise occupied and have got no time to text back coz u are busy or just switch ur phone off she will soon get bored with wasting her money texting you I have lots of differant groups of friends spread all over the U K and europe but I still hang with my oldest mates and they are the ones who matter to me the most! But then again I have known most of them for at least 20 yrs up to 34yrs but I think 3 yrs is not such a long time for you to have built up a very strong bond between you and her in my way of thinking 3 yrs is just a transient relationship which as you get older you will probably have many more of if you get so strung out so much over this aquaintance you will spend a lot of time on your own waiting for the phone to ring or someone to knock on your door so it happens!So move on and enjoy life you sound very young but I am not!So take it from me life go,s too quickly to dwell on silly issues like this sure I have some old friends from years ago that in the past couple of years have realised that they were not friends at all so I have not bothered to try and get in touch with them again! But I have learnt who my true friends are they are the ones who came knocking on my door when after me living abroad for several years and returning after suffering a life threatening illness they are the people I call friends it was my birthday last weekend and I have no money cos of my illness but they arranged with my mother that she was to tell me that she wanted to take me outfor a birthday dinner so that I would be dressed up for 21;00hrs saturday night but the guys came down and took me out for a night out they each put a certain amount of money in a fund to finance my night out ! and I love those guys thats friends and friendship and all of them risked the wrath of her indoors as they are all married just to take me out to cheer me up it was most appreciated thanks lads
2006-10-23 13:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by PARADOX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How come she has'nt invited you to go out with her. It is natural that you are going to be jealous. She seems to enjoy rubbing your nose in it about how good a time she is having, if she is enjoying herself so much how is she finding the time to text you. Are you sure she is out with new friends. Your friend seems to be very insecure. Check her out and find out if she really has got new friends. Ring her home and ask her mum if she is available.Do it just after she texts you.
2006-10-23 12:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by dollybird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a cow, cows are very gentle creatures who will be friendly with anyone who offers them a handful of grass. Offer her a handful of grass, if she takes it straight into her mouth, and eats it, then she might be a cow, or an horse.
2006-10-23 12:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sprinkle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have this problem with my friends. you must have other friends if you dont get some other friends and start going out with them on your own, or invite someone round to yours etc, but make sure she knows about it. so when she asks what have you been upto say, ow bla bla came round last night we had a laugh and then last week i went out with bla bla it was a good night,. then say so then mate when are we out next act all cool about it. if she knows you are spendin time with other friends it will make her jealous i promise you that. maybe not answer her text, if she asks why you never answered it just say ow sorry mate i was out with bla bla and i never took my mobile. play her at her own game but be nice DO NOT let her see you jealous DO NOT even tell her you are jealous. when she confrounts you and tells you that she is jealous DO NOT agree and say you are, just say ow dont be silly your my mate and that is all that counts. trust me it will work.........
2006-10-23 21:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by chicken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you invite her to go out with you sometime? Or throw a party at your house and invite everyone. There are ways to include yourself in your friends lives and not be left out you just have to take control and do it yourself. good luck.
2006-10-23 11:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by crystalyn129 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly i would try and improve on your spelling, but to be honest i think that you should not count this girl as your friend.
Make some new friends yourself and have a good time, Forget about her she is not worth it.
go and have fun and stop worrying about her.
2006-10-23 11:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being a cow, she sounds like she is been using you until she got other friends, probably she is afraid of introducing them to you, because she thinks you are more charismatic/funny than her, and they are gonna like you more than her
2006-10-23 11:44:38 · answer #10 · answered by Insomnia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋