Yes I had twins 5 weeks ago and they were born not alive. I haven't had sex yet because I am not sure if it's the right thing to do after the lost of my twins. I just need some answers. I really don't know what to do after the death because I am just afraid.
2006-10-23 11:13:03 · 8 answers · asked by lagee 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I am so sorry for your loss.
You really should be asking your doctor about this instead of asking us. There could be some real health issues at hand here.
Good luck and take care.
2006-10-23 11:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Roberts 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So sorry about your loss. About now is the time where your body would be able to have sex again, but, you need to make that decision. If you don't feel you are ready, then take your time. Everybody grieves differently. Talk to some close friends or family members, if that doesn't work, counslers can be a great help. Even one or two sessions may help. Feel better
2006-10-23 14:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by Aloys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to hear about the death of your babies.
After an abortion, the doctor advises not to have sex for three months cause you can get pregnate.
After Birth, I think you should wait until your greiving, and your "insides" are healed. I would say a few months unless you need more "mental" time healing.
2006-10-23 11:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by Tweetalette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its all part and parcel of the moving on process that is always very important after such a loss,the main thing is doing it when you are ready. Sorry for your sad loss. Please try looking at your self every morning in the mirror,Smile and tell yourself today is a new day and its going to be good one. Take care
2006-10-23 11:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by Clarky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consulting your doctor is usually the best way to go, if he gives the thumbs up then when ever you feel ready you should do it. I'm sorry for the loss of your babies but pregnancy.org has amazing forums where you can chat with other people who can relate to you and maybe help you find some peace. ^_^
http://www.pregnancy.org/phpBB2/viewforum.php?f=186
2006-10-23 12:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by JJJJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should speak to you Doctor about this - Sorry to hear you lost your twins. My Mother lost two babies and just kept trying when she felt ready - You will know how you feel.
2006-10-23 11:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by NO1TOPICS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever you feel right about it. you eat dont you? smile sometimes? it will eventually feel normal again. what are you afraid of? becoming pregnant again? you will adjust to the change. losing someone sucks- im sorry.
2006-10-23 11:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by whatever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get counseling from your ob md
2006-10-23 11:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by Dean B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋