I find that i hang around lot of girls, yet none are girlfriend. does that make me gay
2006-10-23 11:05:56 · 14 answers · asked by karson o 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No, it makes you very approachable by women. You and your female friends have what the sociologists call "cross-sex" or "cross-gender" friendships. It also sounds like you are heterosocial -- you prefer being in the company of the opposite sex. Other men are homosocial; they prefer being in the company (socially, recreation-wise, etc.) of other men. Homosociality and heterosociality have nothing to do with sexual orientation.
2006-10-23 20:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. It is the people you desire to have sex with that determine your sexuality, not your friends.
I am more comfortable hanging out with a group of guys and always have.. and I have been happily married for 27 years and a mother of 2 :)
2006-10-23 18:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by Shalvia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No at all ..even when I was playing straight I hung out with guys I just feel more comfortable hanging out with guys.I am a very femine women I just dont hang out with women I have 2 female friends and they have been my friends for 20 years.
Most women are cattie and like to gossip and that's not how I roll.Its just depends on ..what sexes company u prefer.
2006-10-23 18:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by I dont trust no Bush but my own. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!
The only thing that makes you gay is if you are a guy and like guys.
I'm not gay. I've been married over 11 years. I've always liked to hang out with girls better. I don't like guys, too much testosterone LOL.
Besides, some friendships with girls turn into more than that. That's nice! You have more lovin' opportunities hanging out with gals than you do guys LOL!
2006-10-23 18:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by commish_guy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you want to have sex with men, do men turn you on? That would determine whether you are gay or not. The people that you hang out with does not determine your sexuality...you are born with it.
2006-10-23 18:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by raebelk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hanging around girls doesn't make you gay. The question you need to ask yourself is...are you attracted to guys?
2006-10-23 18:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by kristen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Don't heterosexual men want to hang out with heterosexual girls? I thought that was the point. You could have just not found the one who speaks the same language you do.
2006-10-23 18:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's an interesting question because my best friends have always been males, straight and gay and I'm a lesbian lolol....I've never cared for femmie friends, they always seem to stab in the back...
2006-10-23 18:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be daft....
as a child, i hung out with the guys... uh-oh, am a lesbian...lol
i am a lesbian, but it wasn't because of hangin out with the guys. If im honest, it was because i fancied most of the girls
2006-10-23 18:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur gay if u act gay....i wished it was like that though: I hang out with guys, wished that would make me str8!!!!
2006-10-23 18:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋