Ok, I'm slighly reticent about posting this here because I've seen how people get treated but I want to see what others think. I have a strange fetish and am worried about coming out to my girlfriend about it. Let me explain: Ever since I was young and first saw the movie Sleeping Beauty I have been turned on by beautiful women being put to sleep. It's always been a fantasy of mine to awaken my sleeping beauty with a kiss. I like pretend hypnosis and seduction like in the movie Phantom of the Opera where he puts Christine to sleep only to awaken her with seduction. Let me say this any fantasy I have is just fantasy only. I will repeat it is fantasy only. Real knockouts are dangerous and stupid. It is fantasy only. Ok: So..I like normal sex and sexual stuff as well, the sleeping thing is just icing on the cake. I want to know how I can perhaps break this to her and see if we could do some FANTASY role play where she is the sleeping beauty. Any suggestions or should I keep it to myself.
2006-10-23 10:58:56 · 5 answers · asked by cosmiccantinacowboy 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Keep in mind this is only fantasy. If she was up form Role Play I would pretend to put her to sleep and then we would do role play. Keep that in mind.
Let me also add that I don't get off on drugging or kidnapping people,that is wrong. It is only the sleepy fantasy that turns me on in regards to this. She would be pretending and I would be pretending and no one would get hurt. I am not into necrophilia and I am fine with normal sex, this kink is just something I was wondering if I should tell. Thanks.
2006-10-23 10:59:22 · update #1
I would be roleplaying things like her being a sexy spy who is caught by the villain who falls for her or me being a hypnotist who seduces her. Nothing real.
2006-10-23 11:00:01 · update #2
OMG! That is my fantasy too. And I think "Sleeping Beauty" did play a role in its beginning.
I'm pretty sure your girlfriend will play along; even if she's not really into it, it is sweet and harmless. I've got my boyfriend to role-play the same thing, and he thinks it is really cute and sexy.
2006-10-23 17:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you this...... have you thought of waking her in the middle of the night with soft touches and kisses... playing your fantasy out in that way? Or is she the type who once she's asleep would kill you if you woke her? And if you don't think she would go for it, try talking openly to her about her fantasies and yours, but I would star by talking about her's first so that she knows your into what she wants too. Good Luck!
2006-10-23 15:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As kinks go, that's a pretty innocuous one, and you seem to understand very well about consent and keeping her happy. Why not share your fantasies with her? Ask her about hers, and open up about yours. Who knows, girlfriend might be kinkier than you, and then you can, um, exchange favors. If she freaks, then she's kinda uptight. I mean, dude, you aren't asking her to whip you or to prostitute herself to the pizza boy while you watch.
2006-10-23 14:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by random6x7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although it doesn't do it for me, Ive always believed that if it doesn't harm anyone then its OK. first ask her if she would be up for role playing and then ask her what does it for her, then you can bring it up. If you have a truly loving relationship I don't see why she would have a problem with something so harmless.
2006-10-23 13:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by eric s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems innocent enough. I'd tell her, and see how she handles it.
2006-10-23 11:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by luckyaz128 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋