i jus recently got let go from my job, but there 's this guy that i like and he knows i think he is cute, he also knew that i was on the verge of either quitting or getting fired and he never even asked me out, he never even gave me his #, we kinda flirted and he spaks africaan and i asked him to say something and when i asked himt o translated he said it meant "you have beautiful eyes", he also teased me sometimes, and he didn't really acted like he like me , should i try to get in contact with him or should forget about him?
2006-10-23 10:38:05 · 26 answers · asked by lovebritsean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i ment to spell speak , sorry for the spelling mistakes
2006-10-23 10:38:56 · update #1
there were times where i felt he was being a jerk and then other times where i felt he was the nicest guy , what do i do?
2006-10-23 10:39:41 · update #2
If he knew you were on the way out and didnt offer up the digits, don't bother. I had a situation like that at work where a girl left and I didn't know what her last day was or last week, and she was gone (dont like the dating women at work thing, lol) but I happened to run into her that week and got the job done and she was pissed I didnt ask her beforehand, but oh well...
2006-10-23 10:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself this question: "Why should i try to pursue this guy?" If you can only say because you think he's cute then it's not worth it! Especially since he hasnt given you any real way to even contact him, or any interest in you enough to be the first to ask you out. I know lots of people that have "beautiful eyes" that doesnt mean I want to have a relationship with them! I hope you know what i mean. Be true to yourself and hopefully my answer has helped you. :-) Sincerely Your Friend Christopher
2006-10-23 10:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by kum-Bucket69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is the shy type that would have a hard time asking someone out, maybe you can give him a call at work or something. If he seems outgoing, then he is just not into you, forget him and move on.
2006-10-23 10:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by mom_of_ndm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you honestly like this guy, then just start hanging out with him more, go to the movies, get his phone number and talk to him, and really get to know him before you decide weather he is a jerk or not...i mean whats the worst that can happen if you start talking to him?...but if you not so interested in him, then dont work on the relationship, find some other guy!
2006-10-23 10:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by xoxobeccaxoxo333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a manipulative sick pig!!!(not you, HIM!)
He costed you his job, if it wasn't for him you'd still have your job right? This guy is nothing but an immature, idiotic, sick, stupid guy that loves to play mind games with girls and watch them get hurt because that's enjoyable to him.
I'm so sorry he did this to you. Move on. If you have trouble moving on you can either confide in your good friend and ask her if she can help you, or go to a therapist, or if you need someone to vent to I'm here for you.
Good luck and YOU DESERVE BETTER! You are way too good for him!! You are worth much more than someone treating you like dirt and costing you your job.
2006-10-23 10:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say go for it, the worst that he can do is say no but almost all guys will give you credit for having the courage to ask them to do something. You truly have nothing to loose since you no longer work with him, and dating someone you work with can make things complicated. Good Luck!
2006-10-23 10:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that by what you say, he likes you, but I get the feeling he has a girlfriend by the way he acts. Just my opinion but if you do choose to call him as a friend, before you get involved ask if he is seeing anyone.
2006-10-23 10:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. Sometimes work flirting is just something to pass the day at work and nothing more.
2006-10-23 10:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male's properties are way off, especially #2 which is far more appropriate applied to women.
2016-05-22 02:16:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him and you need to read the book "Hes just not that into me" This will help understand that when a guy really likes you he will do what evers needed to get your attection.
2006-10-23 10:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Biometric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋