okay i moved and never broke uo with my bf, we talked and stuff and then i came back without telling him and we still went out. my sister found out by his cousin that he had another girl and i confronted him and he said he would break up with her and supposedly did. well she still calls him and he says it is cuz she was really into him and this weekened there are two events that we are supposed to go to together but he asked me to go out of town. i asked him why, do you not want that girl to see us together and he said yeah i dont want her to tell you nothing cuz you stole her man. i told him that i should be mad at her cuz we were going out first and hes like yeah but i dont want her to be mean to you. okay should i spy on him? is he still going out with her? what do you guys think? should i just leave him? but its hard cuz we have been dating for 5 years and he is the first and only person i have ever been with. i know this sounds so HS but.......(i know its wrong catagory.)
2006-10-23 10:28:32 · 2 answers · asked by Elle 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Well it sounds like to me you are being used big time girl. I would drop that player in a heartbeat. Are you that desperate for this guy that you want to spy on him? Let that loser go, if not then it makes you look like a loser. Once this guy knows he can play with you it will continue girl. Even if you married him it would probably continue. A relationship is based on love, faithfullness, committment, and not having to wonder where or who the other person is with. Get smart girl!!! If I were you as hard as it might be on you leave him and never look back. I imagine there is a guy waiting on you that would treat you awesome. Spoil you with love. If you are lucky you can probably find one that might even treat you like a princess or a queen. The main thing is that you need a guy you can trust and not have to spy on. Think hard, maybe you know of another at your school,college or city. If not, girl go out and find another guy !!!
2006-10-24 05:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by nellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either leave him or forget this issue. This will spin out of control in a week or so if you start spying on him. If he said " dont want her to tell you nothing cuz you stole her man." Means he was cheating on you while you were away if he once considered himself in a relationship with "her" That's something harsh. Leaving would be a my sugguestion but if you do do it now.
2006-10-23 17:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by asmidsk@verizon.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋