Some men are bullies, especially towards women. Why do they deny being bullies and how can women get away from these men?
2006-10-23 09:51:47 · 15 answers · asked by gwennlpn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They bully women because they are cowards and are afraid of men; you get away from them by getting a restraining order and battered women shelters can assist you if needed.
2006-10-23 09:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I had one once...deny-deny-deny.
In the end I started to believe it was me?
Then, one day he went too far...Through me and my small baby out on the street.No home nothing, and I just never went back.
The baby and my mind too, had suffered enough.
When a woman has had enough, she will leave....If she doesn't then she hasn't had enough?
No normal human being can stay...unless.....they make that choice.
I know, and its simple...women stay because of no courage to leave.
Why do these guys Deny?
Because they are in their own little world...they have totally convinced themselves they are right.
Even the Lord God Almighty....can't change them....''they have to want to see their sin...and it is sin.
I always say''I hate Bullies''.........and it is something that just turns my stomach...men acting so badly.In fact! I think it is also a form of being a coward.
I also detest that too......Having said all this, there are some awesome godly men out there....so do not give up.
2006-10-23 10:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bully is the last person in the world to consider himself a bully, for two reasons. First everyone feels they are always right and good. That's human nature. Second bullies don't even think about other people's feelings.
2006-10-23 09:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by The Bird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because some men are just wimps for denying it and even biggers wimps for hitting on a woman. Women can probaly go to a local group that specializes in women getting beat. You might wanna try the police and/or see if they know of any.
2006-10-23 09:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by Lav1122 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman is free to display her strengths in any relationship. Men will be like children and try and get all they can for as little as possible and also try to control as much as possible. Mostly it comes from their deep feelings of venerability which they hide by being aggressive.
2006-10-23 09:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who bully are cowards. Cowards deny their wrong doing. How can you get away from them ? Walk away and dont look back.
2006-10-23 10:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself. Men will only treat you how you let them. If someone was steeling from you and you couldn't prove it, so you kept them around, they would continue to steel from you. If he admits he is a bully, cause believe he knows he is, he gives you a piece of power in knowing that he is.
2006-10-23 09:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are in denial, and if they are bulling you around then you should not subject yourself to such abuse. They have serious issues. There are shelters and support groups that should be able to help. Another way is to just pick up your stuff and leave and don't ever go back to that person or a situation that is similar to it ever again.
2006-10-23 09:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by Shannon G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Domestic abuse is not a result of losing control; domestic abuse is intentionally trying to control another person. The abuser is purposefully using verbal, nonverbal, or physical means to gain control over the other person. Admitting their wrong-doing would mean a loss of control.
2006-10-23 09:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These men just need attention. Just ignore them and dont give them the satisfaction that you are affected by them at all! Act as if they are not there...
2006-10-23 09:53:39 · answer #10 · answered by Joy RP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋