i have a m8 at skl a 'boy' m8 and we get on soo well were so close and last week he told me he fancied me and he moved to me but i moved away coz im confused, i like him to but im scared that it will affect our relationship as close frendz if i let him move to me... wat shal i do???
2006-10-23 09:45:23 · 10 answers · asked by Random_2k7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you fancy him too and has a feeling that he is serious, why not follow your heart and see what happens? I know you must really value your friendship with him hence you're concerned with ruining the friendship, however, life is too short and you do not wish any good opportunities to be missed. As long as you treat each other with respect and honesty, the friendship that you have built up will always remain whatever happens. Good luck.
2006-10-23 10:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by Helloyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be brave and be honest.
Some peole are very comfortable with close contact and others are not. I'm not so it takes time to get physically close to me.
You need to be yourself and not what you think someone else wants you to be.
Be prepared to accept that he may want to move on and if that is with someone else so be it. It may hurt but don't compromise yourself just to keep him.
If he's a real mate, he'll always be around but if he's at a certain age he might just be sexually curious in which case it may be better to let him be curious with someone else.
Without knowing either of you it's so difficult to say.
At the end of the day, the only person who you have to always be honest to is yourself. At school, most relationships come and go because both boys and girls are just starting to explore relationships and growing up.
If you feel you can, talk to people you feel you can trust and get their opinion. Even parents and teachers were kids once, though some seem to have forgotten this!
As a parting thought:
If you think it's something you might regret later, leave it for now.
2006-10-23 10:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by INTIKAB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to be your close friend. The relationship has already moved on past that. If you're interested, allow him to make sweet love to you. Otherwise, if you push him away, he will gradually move on and find another fine lady to get high and bed down with.
2006-10-23 09:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to the guy and tell him how you feel, if he's a really good friend of yours he should understand, discuss the feling you both have with each other and then decide weather to take yoyr friendship in another direction........i hope this helps :))))
2006-10-23 09:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by Myszka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but the friendship you had is gone already cause he wont want to be friends with you if you reject him anyway. what have you got to loose, you like him and he likes you.
you could be susprised at where it leads, you know what they say, good friends make great lovers
2006-10-23 10:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by vexon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, but if you are unsure, take it slow and see where this "romantic" side will lead. You dont want to set yourself up for heartache.
2006-10-23 09:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by babyj248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know because I didn't understand any of that. Sorry maybe I am just old-fashioned.
2006-10-23 09:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by myra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like him right? then i see no problem just tell him how you feel, friends come and go.
2006-10-23 09:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't sound very old, or grown up so if i was you, concentrate on school for now and learn to spell before you get involved with boy's please.....
2006-10-23 10:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by twinsters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk
2006-10-23 09:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by Joseph S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋