this guy likes me and i like him but this girl keeps telling him she loves him on myspace and i can't see what he's saying because her profile is private we arent together but we like eachother alot .. what should i do?
2006-10-23 09:43:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what if they're together?
2006-10-23 09:43:57 · update #1
and he didnt tell me!!! we dont go to the same school because he graduated but we saw eachother lastnight and he wouldnt stop flirting with me!! i flirted back =]
2006-10-23 09:45:02 · update #2
i didnt even ask him
2006-10-23 09:46:24 · update #3
Ask him if he wants you to be the only one for him, if he wants to go steady with you. Right now he may feel like you are in an open relationship (if you are in a relationship at all)--so define what you have with him, with him.
2006-10-23 09:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by nicholaswright2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes indeed, the is common teenage lust. It is absolutely common that you feel trouble expressing your feelings for each other. You are all new to the game, and can only learn through experience. You will definitely make a few mistakes along the way, but use those to learn from and become more experienced! I would definitely try to find out who this guy's close friends are, and then spread the word amongst them that you like this guy. That way the word will get back to him and he will have no choice but to act. Good luck!
2006-10-23 16:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you got to stand up for yourself and ask the guy out. It's the only way you'll know if he's for real. If he says no just move on. Myspace ppl aren't always living in the same area and could be full of themselves.
2006-10-23 16:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by material_gurl2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him that he needs to tell you who he prefers. if you have already met him, and you see him flirting with other girls in front of you and online, - you may need to cut him off completely.
if he knows you are online, he should not be 'flirting' in private with another girl. he sounds like a player.
tell him how you feel, and see what he says. watch how he reacts. if he is sincere, he will break ties with the other(s). if he is not sincere, he will still flirt with you and the others - in front of you.
you deserve better if he does that. be careful, be alert, and ask him. be nice and civil about it, but do ask.
you deserve to be treated with respect, and if he cant give it to you, let alone any girl...babe, let him go.
there are plenty of good guys out there for you to choose from. do not think that this is it.
test him out. ask questions. but don't play stupid games with him. be upfront, and see what he does.
good luck.
2006-10-23 16:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by dragonsclaw27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to this guy. If you feel that he's being honest with you then maybe there's a chance for you but if there's any doubt in your mind that he's not telling you the truth then you need to let him be.
2006-10-23 16:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one way to find out: ask him out. Don't worry about a virtual girlfriend. If he says no to you, then move on. Don't put maple syrup on his keyboard or popcorn in his pants, unless you really feel like it.
2006-10-23 16:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do is ask him. try not to seem too jelous or posessive, just ask him what that girl's problem is. tell him how much you like him and ask him if he feels the same way.
2006-10-23 16:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by jugglaman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check his myspace, see if she wrote him anything, ask him about it, tell him she's telling you all this stuff, she's probably jealous, and will do anything to keep you from having him...
2006-10-23 16:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by ~*.:Kyla:.*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and tell him to be honest. You have to let him know how you feel. If he is a true friend he will understand and tell you whatever you want to know.
2006-10-23 16:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by soldierman69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
color me silly but i think i'd just ask him straight out. or you could do it while flirting....."you say that to all the girls" type thing...
i would just ask him.....tell him you'd really like to take him to a movie but you don't wanna upset anyone....ya know what i mean?
2006-10-23 16:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by igot_terminal_uniqueness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋