while my dad had cancer and a 50/50 chance one of my 'friends' ditched my for the popular group, she spread it around,and gave me nasty looks ignored me and said things about me and my best friend behind our backs, is there any way i could get revenge ??thanksxxxxx
2006-10-23 09:41:27 · 8 answers · asked by gina l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is her own revenge. Don't stoop to her level.
2006-10-23 09:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, revenge seems like the way to go. I know if you come up with a really good plan it will hurt her and you will feel avenged. But, then she wants to do the same to you. It repeats and then it is a big game of seeing who can outdo the other and cause more hurt.
It is not worth it. When someone brings up something she has said, I would respond with something of the line of why would you ask me that? Or why would you bring this up to me? Do you really believe that?
Do not confirm nor deny anything this person is saying about you. Just blow it off like it is the silliest thing you have heard them say.
I know it is not the easy answer, but it tends to put an end to the rumors if she sees you are not getting overly upset over it all.
2006-10-23 16:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by nordic_winds1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What good od revenge... the best thing you could do is show her you could careless... her downing it at the time when you dad was ill was very rude of her and she really wasn't your friend to start with... and don't dwell on this to much... she doesn't deserve any more of your time that you have spent thinking about it... you can let everybody know how she ditched you when you needed a real friend ... otherwise I would forget it and go on...
2006-10-23 16:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember.. Revenge is best served on a cold platter... (Take your time)
2006-10-23 16:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by mr.longshot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Gina,
Just put it behind you for now.. concentrate on school and making your Dad happy and comfortable. Be glad that he is alive and well , (I guess)....
Good luck
2006-10-23 16:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure but when you do get your revenge make sure its good and that it doesnt lead back to you.
2006-10-23 16:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time on her...
Don't forget about it and maybe some day you
will get your chance but don't waste any time on her...
2006-10-23 16:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her....her loss ,not a friend,just an a**hole.
2006-10-23 16:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋