I need help! bad. ok.. i dated a boy for 10 months during my sophmore but we broke up for a number of reasons [i lied about tiny things, we fought alot] and soon after we break up he hops back in the game and have a new girlfriend. and me of course still being in love with him.. i talk crap about his girl.. then they break up and i tell him how i feel... he didnt say much.. then he gets a new girl. and.. like i dunno HE HATES MY GUTS.. but how is it that i find the heart to still be in love with him.. and now im currently dating his best friend [bad i know]... like honestly i know i messed up soooo bad.. so bad.. but i still love him.. more than ever.. i know im young.. very young.. 16.. but for sumone reason i feel that god made him. just for me.. i have no iead what to do.. like now theres no way that i can talk to him because of the main reason.. is that he hates me.. ugh i just need some help its been almost 7 months now.. and i still think about him and love him... sumone help
2006-10-23 09:40:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thanks so very much you guys. yes i am young. yes i do need to grow up. and i appreciate and respect all answers.
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2006-10-23 09:51:23 · update #1
that's just the way it is girl first love you never get over! but you gotta look at it this way if he really was the one for you he wouldn't have moved on that fast and then to go ahead and be someone else after you told him you still love him ? come on me and you both know its been over between you two and i think its time for you to move on too don't even give him a second chance he had his chance to get back together with you and he passed your too good for him you love and learn you'll be okay good luck
2006-10-23 09:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
was this boy your first love? if so than it is perfectly understandable that you would feel the way you do about him. A first love has a special place in our hearts even long after the relationship has ended, which is ok and natural, but it is time to move on. Use this as a learning experience. Iamsure that thelast thing you want to hear is "you are young and there will be other boys for you" but this is true.
2006-10-23 16:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by corinne_29_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn let him go seriously. after ur dating his bestfriend u fuc k up real bad. how u gonna tell him u love him then u jump to his best friend that looks stupid remember action means more than words. if it was little things that u lied to him. them why did u lie if it was little things. most probably he does hate you not to make u feel bad. i think you should sit down chill down and think what ur doing if u want this guy badly. but dont get ur self in a relationship with him if he careless about you so i think you should just move on worry about school if u guys are meant to be u guys will be back period
2006-10-23 16:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by jose m 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really need to forget him and move on. It's obvious that he doesn't want to be with you anymore. You have some growing up to do sweety. You have more than enough time to think about boys/men in the future.
2006-10-23 16:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always best no matter what.Obviously he feels he can't trust you,so get over him and move on.You are young,and there are tons of boys out there yet that don't know you.Start fresh but htis time with honesty as your first policy.
2006-10-23 16:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u may still love him and u care about what he does. but the truth is that u need to move on, maybe next year u guys might start talking then ya hook back up!!! but just let him go...... i know how u feel me and my ex broke about year ago he cheat on me with my cousin i still miss him. but i needed to move on!!!
2006-10-23 16:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome being a teenager you think stuff like this didnt happen to many others at your age , time heals ok, i no its real tuff but there are so many boys and men out there for you , in 5- year you will laguh at this . try to go on its your only choice ok
2006-10-23 16:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by jamietogood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we always want what we cant have. Im not sure where the logic is in this, I just know its frustrating. Chances are, if he dumped his other girl and came to you and wanted you back, you wouldnt want him anymore.
hang in there.
2006-10-23 17:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by babyj248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. The door is closed. Move on with your life. You can't go back.
2006-10-23 16:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think that hurts wait till yo get older, let it go.
2006-10-23 16:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋