I am 36 years old, married to a wonderful man, with equally wonderful children.
my job requires me to get up & leave for work at 3'ish in the morn, while hubby works until midnight.
we are having scheduling conflicts for sure. How do you all find time for everything when everyone is busy?
I miss my hubby!
2006-10-23 09:40:17 · 8 answers · asked by corey_emily_siara_mikey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Today's life makes intimacy difficult in a lot of households. I would suggest that you get a babysitter (hopefully you have some family around you) once and a while and just have date nights with your husband. My wife and I will go out and if we can't get time for a weekend getaway sometimes we manage to just stay overnight at a nice Hyatt or Hilton and have a good time being with each other. I know just what you are talking about, sometimes my wife and I joke that we are roommates because we are so busy and rightfully so, it seems to be about the kids most of the time... one other trick. Try taking a shower together before you go to work or when he gets home and needs one. You get a little dirty... and then you get clean! Good Luck.... you may both jet off to work but at least you both have a little smile on your face!
2006-10-23 09:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably need work changes. It's never going to be okay long term if you don't spend time together - and it sounds like that's pretty well out of the question right now. Either change your schedule or change your job. Nothing is more important than the people you love.
2006-10-23 17:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by Dovie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't schedule so much. Wing it sometimes. As long as you have daycare- or if your children are old enough to be left alone; they can help with things around the house. It won't hurt them at all. You and your husband just have to become creative if you are looking for a little romance. As long as you and your husband are talking and stay on the same page, it will all be okay. Family fun, in fact, is very spontanious.
2006-10-23 17:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by babidoozer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Corey!
YOu both sit down and decide what to do. No money in the world can compare to a mate or children. MAKE the time. that has to e number one!!!!! Good Luck
2006-10-23 17:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new jobs, or start a family business so every one can be together.
2006-10-23 16:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone needs to find a job that pays better money...
2006-10-23 16:41:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aaawww thats sad. I dont think I could handle it. Something would for sure have to change. Think about what's most important to you.
2006-10-23 16:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like you have time from midnight to 3AM.
Use your time wisely girl! What are you waiting for? Wake his butt up! He will LOVE IT!! I promise.
2006-10-23 16:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋