Me my boyfriend and some of his friend went to florida last weekend.And when my boyfriend told me that he had to use the bathroom me and his friends walked him over to the restroom and when he went in his friends pulled me behind the wall and rapped me. I still didnt tell my boyfriend or nobody else. They told me that I better not tell him or they would kill me. I dont know what to do because when my boyfriend want to have sex with me I start to think about them rapping me. It was times I would just start crying and he would ask me whats wrong and when I dont tell him he gets mad.I dont know if I should tell him or not.
2006-10-23 09:38:04 · 9 answers · asked by Pie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sweety, i am sooo sorry you are going through this pain alone. yes i think you should tell him. there are ways to tell your boyfriend in a comfortable and secure setting. find your local rape crisis center . they will invite him to the center and help you tell him. they offer wonderful counseling sessions for both you and him. men take the violation of their woman very seriously. and all men respond differently. the crisis center is 100% confidential. they wont tell him or the police if you request them not to. it is a safe place for you not to be alone anymore. i have included a link that i pray you will utilize... good luck honey, you are not alone...
2006-10-23 09:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your boyfriend need to go the police. Thats no way to live. You need to tell your boyfriend at some point. How are they going to kill you if you dont live in florida and they dont know where you live? All of that aside, these guys need to pay for what they did! Your boyfriend has a right to know too! GO TO THE POLICE IMMEDIATELY!
2006-10-23 16:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by Aries 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who rape (one "p") often threaten their victims. This is just another power move. Don't let it keep you down. If you want to get over this (and it will take a lot of time and effort), do three things:
1. Tell the police
2. Tell your boyfriend (make sure you tell the police first, so he doesn't do anything stupid or say you're making it up).
3. Seek counseling
Realize that because you waited, it's your word against theirs.
2006-10-23 16:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you f*cked in the head? Tell your boyfriend, you need to tell somebody. And if you tell him what the threat was, and why you didn't tell he will understand. Then he will most likely ditch his friends, and take you to the police. Although it's to late to get a rape kit done because there's no evidence left. I have been raped to honey.........but my scenario was alot worse. Trust me talk to someone, and go to the police, then they will pay for your councelling and protection.
2006-10-23 16:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES ,but first call the police,and your parents.Get to a hospital,and get tested.It may be detrimental to have a check up.By all means get them arrested,and YES tell your boyfriend right away!
2006-10-23 16:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman, never be distress in life cuz there is nothing hard for God. if realy that you belived in God den belive in your boyfd to and tell him. Do what you normally do to make him happy and called him in the midnite and spoke to him politely way a,d add what they told you after the rap. let him know that you loved him soo much too. After that see the action that he'l take against them, and they can not kill you too.
2006-10-23 17:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by Albert C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you serious???!!! You better tell him,{if he don't already know.} How could he not? Was he in the restroom that long??My god child you better tell him and pay attention to his reaction. There you will find your answer. and then leave him and his friends. they are scum of the earth..L.
2006-10-23 16:43:01 · answer #7 · answered by ben and lisa h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dame girl call the police and telll them what happen then tell ur boyfriend
2006-10-23 16:41:55 · answer #8 · answered by Joseph S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah.. u should tell him... he is ur BOYFRIEND.. why should ur scared to tell him?
2006-10-23 16:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by bäwЄŁ Ļoĕ ® 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋