and ball them out (fuss at them) or do something mean to them like egg their houses or send a nasty email? my fiance's brother has a big mouth and his mom does too causing me to want to chew them out. Only answer with serious answers.
2006-10-23 09:24:09 · 6 answers · asked by KelBean 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Believe you me, I have at many times wanted to Egg someones house, including sending the e-mails, but seriously...all that will accomplish is to allow them to find fault with something else towards you, or to cause your love nothing but a headache. Best way to get at them hon, is to get them back with kindness. You and your fiance have the rest of your life together....don't let anyone come in between that.
Be Happy and Good Luck.
2006-10-23 09:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey KelBean! Is this the same fiancee who impregnated you and who you believe is using cocaine? You are looking for serious answers but I think you need to take a serious look at your life before addressing little questions like this.
Your biggest problem is not the quality of verbal communication with your future in-laws. Rather than considering the appropriateness of egging their house or sending nasty-grams, maybe you should contemplate your situation.
You are pregnant by a suspected drug addict. Therefore, you have a high probability of being a single mom. You need to start planning how to survive alone so that you can provide a better future for your child than you are facing. Feel free to mark this reply as abuse but that will not change the truth about your life choices and situation.
2006-10-23 17:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by Senor Pig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get mad at this answer, but if you do that, perhpas there is some truth to what they are saying and that might be why you're angry....not sure what they are talking about, but chewing them out will only give them fuel to continue with the course of behavior they are already on. Stay calm, and overlook it. The issue probably doesn't really matter in the grand scheme of things.....
2006-10-23 16:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by favrd1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure your not 10 yrs old so lets hold off on egging the house. If you freak out you will only give them more to criticize you about. If its your fiances family that is causing problems its up to him to fix and put an end to it, not you.
2006-10-23 16:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some critics makes u a better person and makes u grow up.don't ever bother yourself with critics that will not make u greater, remember its easier to criticize than to create, that's why critics are not problem solvers.
2006-10-23 16:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by talktome 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I am beyond their level of reason.
2006-10-23 16:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋