i mean word got around that i like him and now he knows but im afraid he wont like me should i just ask him out?
2006-10-23 09:04:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He knows now, so the worst is over. Ask him out. If he says yes, then yay! If he says no, then at least you know and can work on getting over him.
2006-10-23 09:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by random6x7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! If he may already know you like him then he may be waiting for you to say something to him. Just start with "hello". Then tell him your name. Then you can go two ways with this. One, make small talk, maybe compliment something about him (nice shirt, nice hat, etc.) until you feel comfortable enough to let him in on your little secret. Who knows he may be a big help to you and get the conversation moving along. Or two, just get right to the point and say, "Well, you probably know by now I like you and if you didn't...you do now" and then laugh it off. (Not a nervouse giggle tho, you don't want to come off a little dorky, if you know what I mean. Then say "So, would you like to go out with me this Saturday?" Don't say "sometime" and leave it at that. If he says "yes" then get his phone number and give him yours. Tell him you'll give him a call to talk about the details of your date. If he can't go on Saturday (hopefully he'll suggest another time on the spot) then just tell him to give you a call when he's had a chance to look at his calendar. Remeber, you still have his phone number, so you can always call him just to chat until you get to have your date. That way you've gotten to know eachother a little better beforehand making the date a little less awkward. Good luck. I hope this was helpful.
2006-10-23 16:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the hardest part is over because he knows now u have feelings for him. But has he approached you yet? I feel like if he knows that you have certain feelings for him he would respond if he felt the same. I wouldn't ask him out quite yet. Talk to him more see if the feeling is mutual and move on from there
2006-10-23 16:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by MiSS RiCH & FamOUs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just start out by simply talking. Ask him about his classes, his teachers, what subjects he is good in what not so good. If you have the same lunch periods ask if he'd like to sit with you and discuss your classes/homework. If HE is interested enough HE will ask YOU out.
2006-10-23 16:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this same predicament. Just talk to him you don't have to flirt. I mean he knows you like him and even if he says he has a gf named Misty don't listen b/c he may ask you out., That is what happend to me. ~Bri~
2006-10-23 16:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows you like him then he will expect you to talk to him say hi in the hall when you see him then gradually get to know him
he could or couldnt like you but if not at least you are friends.
2006-10-23 16:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him like u would any other of ur guy friends, see how it goes from there to see if he likes u... if he is interested in u, u will know. dont ask him out right away. just talk to see where it leads to
2006-10-23 16:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean, i am in the same situation. but everyone i ask tells me to ask him out. now i just have too find the courage to do it.
2006-10-23 16:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by karabear78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah just try to talk to him, joke around and if it seems like he likes you then ask him out.
2006-10-23 16:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. What do you have to lose, that you had to begin with?
2006-10-23 16:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋