It's so fricken annoying. I really can't stand it anymore. I guess I should be glad he treats his mother so well. But come on. Enough is enough. It's so not attractive in a man. What should I do?
2006-10-23 08:57:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
that's usually a good sign that he gets along with his mother. try and avoid it if you can, but if it bothers you that much maybe you should just try discussing it with him, and see if you can come to a compromise
2006-10-23 09:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by ema 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Lift boyfriends hat.
2. Romove Mama's Boy boyfriend.
3 Replace with man.
4. Replace hat.
5. Enjoy
2006-10-23 09:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that - and honey you can't change it. And if you try, what you will end up doing is making him resent you . .cause he will perceive it as you trying to come in between him and his "momma." I do agree it's not attractive at all, to me there's nothing worst. .but a lot of momma's boys exist. So does he talk to her once a day or several times a day . there's a big difference there. I don't think once a day would bother me, but I've dated guys that constantly stayed on the phone with their mothers, even when the mothers knew they were with me "their girlfriend." Which makes me wonder about the mothers - cause I wouldn't do that if I had a son I'd say "it's rude to be on the phone with me while you have your lady over, call me later." But I think a lot of mothers feel like they're #1 when their sons dote on them them like that. . wierd
2006-10-23 09:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by Cris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mama Boys will never change ... lol ... it's in their blood ... they sucked too much titty juice and their brains don't function well ... haha sorry my ex-husband was a mama's boy and it was horrible .. I mean I love my mom and would do about anything to make sure she's happy but there's a point of being a good child and being a push-over letting mama make all your decisions for you ... I totally understand where you're coming from ... will it ever change .. probably not ... that's why I'm divorced now ... good luck with your boy ... !
2006-10-23 09:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is 29 and talks to his mom pretty much every day or every other. But he is everything but a mamas boy - he didnt even send her a mothers day card because he is so inconsiderate (I deal). But he likes to check in and see how she's doing. It doesnt personally affect his relationship with me so I dont see the harm. He cares about family- thats a good thing. Only get upset if she starts telling him to leave you!
2006-10-23 09:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by AGNY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like it then break up with him. You have no right to ask him to change his relationship with his family just because you don't like that they talk on the phone. That is extremely selfish of you. You should be happy that your boyfriend is good to his mom and is family oriented. That says a lot about the way he treats you and will treat his own children one day.
2006-10-23 09:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 26 and I talk to my rents daily. I think it's the close factor for me. They are my best friends.... and you can tell a lot about a man by the way he treats his mother. If she isn't controlling you guys then what's the harm. Maybe they are close?
2006-10-23 08:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by Queen of Kings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As demanding as it is for you there are literally not a lot extra, you would possibly want to do for now. And your 27-year-old boyfriend, it is disgusting. My coronary heart truly is going out to you for this must be the worst days of your life. Now that you comprehend that your sister has been speaking with human beings then you actually comprehend she is advantageous. see you later as she does that attempt to imagine constructive and that this is in difficulty-free words a count number of time and she will be ready to be residing house back. What about your dad? Can he help there? attempt to dangle in there. and verify out now to not pressure because you want to be solid for at the same time as your sister comes decrease back residing house. i desire expenditures are going to be laid compared 27-year-old.
2016-12-05 03:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lmao, you need a manly man! it's not a bad thing to be close to his family, he's not going to pick you over his mom, i can for sure tell you that. Talk to him about it , but im sure it will just offend him.. yeah, just get rid of him if you can't deal with it! If his mom starts trying to push you away, then you have a real bad situation. lol
2006-10-23 09:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either accept it or move on. At this point he's not going to change. Is it interfering with your relationship or just annoying? If you find it that unattractive then maybe he's not the man for you.
2006-10-23 09:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by smartypants909 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I married one of them...divorced him too but not because of that.
Just try to let it go unless momma is interfering in your relationship...via nosiness or comments.. you really can't be selfish..maybe he has a fear of something happening to her and he won't be there to help...maybe he just has some sort of separation anxiety....Talk to him and see what is going on with him...see if there is some sort of underlying problem...if there isn't try to come up with some happy medium and don't be so harsh.
2006-10-23 09:07:27 · answer #11 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋