house, he tells me that he is not in love with her.even though in the past he has told me if she straighten up he would give her another chance...he tells me I should know how he feels about me..yet he never tells me he leaves it up to me to figure his feelings out...I need some advice as to ...is his feelings for me real..and does he actually have any for me?should I continue to see him? or should I let him go? please help.....
2006-10-23 08:56:55 · 10 answers · asked by sexyback1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let him go, I dated a guy that was divorced and he had a 1 yr old and was still in love with his ex wife. They were still having a sexual relationship while we were dating. He couldn't get over her and because they had a kid together, he had to see her. It was a no win situation for me.
Any man who loved you would never need to hang on to an old flame, unless they still loved them.
You deserve better!!!! I am now married to a (different) man who is totally devoted to me!!! They do exist!!
2006-10-23 09:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by chickadee_ajm 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,I think you should let him go seeing that he has made it clear to you that he would take his ex back in a heartbeat over you if she got her act together. That was very disrespectful to you and he had no right sharing that much info with you. He should be telling you his deepest feelings for you, not the other way around. I don't think his feelings are where they should be with you. He still has a lot of feelings for his ex. I know this isn't what you wanted to hear, but this is just my opinion. If you let him go you would be doing yourself a big favor down the road and you would also be saving yourself from a broken heart too. Get out of this now and find yourself a better guy that will give you the love your looking for.
2006-10-23 09:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound to good. He is still in love with her and would take her back if she does straighten up. What if she straightened up tomorrow and told him she wanted him back? He would go. He has told you that flat out. I am sorry sweety. He may feel for you, but he still loves this girl for all that she is. I think you should let him go and he needs to make the descion you or her. He needs to make up his mind now before you get way to envolved and he does end up leaving. He may tell you how he feels about you, but is it him trying to convince himself or him trying to put his ex behind him and move on? He has not moved on from what you have said and it seems you are kind of a rebound for him. I am sorry for the bad news. My opinion move on and find someone better.
2006-10-23 09:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by Christa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound good sweetie. Just the point that he has told you in the past that he would give her another chance isn't good. You need to take a step back. If you really like him and what to keep seeing him do that, but don't put your whole heart in it. Just be yourself if it is meant to be it will work out. Don't push the subject, remember some guys run when they feel backed into a corner.
2006-10-23 09:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by sassyone575 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. He is still in love with his ex-fiance. I mean, he even said that he would give her another chance if she straightened up! Maybe she wanted him back, and he wants her back too.
2006-10-23 08:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PLAYER!
Tell him you'd love to meet his ex sometime while the two of you are out running around some day. His reaction will tell you everything you need to know.
2006-10-23 09:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to his exfiances house and ask them if he was a nice man did he help in the house and all that stuff. Ask if he abused her and if so why!!!
2006-10-23 09:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by spongefan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should let him go... just the fact that he has her key come on. he still loves her and is just using you to try and forget her.
2006-10-23 09:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by >>simple<< 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him go because he stills have feelings for her
he's trying to play you and the fiance.if i was you i would dump him
2006-10-23 09:01:32 · answer #9 · answered by jessihaitianchick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
run.
2006-10-23 08:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by valerie v 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋