My officemate-turned-lover says so, & he says that having placed his hickies on my underarms makes me completely his in spite of my being very much married. He further says that a kissmark of another man on a wife's armpit is an ultimate humiliation for her husband, & that's why he's laughing behind my ignorant husband's back. Is there such a tradition in the male tribe? Honest answers please...
2006-10-23 08:55:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The man you are committing adultery with sounds like a freak. I have never heard of that. Why would you cheat on your husband with someone who treats you like a piece of stolen property?
2006-10-23 09:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by Bill 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is the first time I have ever heard that!! Surely not! I'd suggest you stay away from the office mate/lover and take care of business at home. If you tell the officemate/lover that the hickey is on the armpit so hubby will overlook it, he'll see it as a challenge and put one in a more visible spot next time. Hey....if your lover likes armpits I bet he'd love smelly feet. Try it and see!
2006-10-23 08:59:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
HELLLLLLLLL NOOOOO. Wow that's disgusting. No guy every every checks out his woman's armpits. He's only putting hickies there b/c he knows your husbankd will never see them. This way your "officemate" can try to act like a tough guy when in reality he's terrified of your husband killing him. The whole situation's disturbing. Off to Jerry Springer you go.
2006-10-23 08:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by X 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
OMG, what a weirdo. No, him sucking your armpits is just nasty. He is a freak and apparently thinks he is some God. There is no tradition among the normal male population that says a hicky in a woman's armpits makes her yours. He is wrong. That is just plain silly. I am laughing at him for sucking your armpits.
2006-10-23 09:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by davinm23 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know where you're from, but I have never heard of an American man doing that. Ever. Actually, armpits are kind of a spot you avoid. But, hey, whatever floats your boat.
2006-10-23 10:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What?? That's nonsense.
In today's culture (and ignoring brainwashing, the occult, and kidnapping) women--or people--can only feel "owned" if they allow themselved to be.
Sounds like you have a few things going on. Perhaps you are mentally looking to be "owned" by another other than your husband?
2006-10-23 08:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow... that's pretty weird. I've never heard of that before - Now, if he pee'd on you, then I'd say he was marking his territory - which would still be weird... perhaps you should just drop Jonny-Weirdo!!
Good Luck!
Aloha!!
2006-10-23 08:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
no like i would never put a hicky on some girls armpit. i wouldn't even touch anybodys nasty armpits. eat six onions before he dose it again to where the onions smell to repale him off of your armpits drink one glass of water and turn up the heater to where you start sweating and that will keep him off of your arm pitts
2006-10-23 09:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok i am no guy, but How do you sleep at night knowing you just slept with your office mate? how do you go home to your husband, who may be in the mood to make love to his wife, knowing you have already been satisfied for the day..you are just asking for trouble..the whole armpit thing is just plain nasty..think about it would you go sucking on armpits..i dont think so shaved or not its still just gross.. you are asking for serious trouble. I turely hope you either tell your husband or that he finds out who you really are and leaves you for someone who knows his worth...........!!!!
2006-10-23 09:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kiss - marks= Hater-marks, He just doesn't want you to date anyone else, don't you fall for that!
And not judging you or anything but if he saying stuff like that he's crazy you should stay away, it could end your marriage
2006-10-23 08:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by lildemon78 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋