I am 17 nearly 18 and have been in a relationship with my guy(22) for 3years we dont have sex all the time but no he rarely wants to have sex at all once a week/forghtnight i dont know what i have done wrong he just always turns away and falls asleep ive tried everything i can think of now i need help please.
2006-10-23 08:30:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
You need to talk about it with him. Not at the time your trying to have sex either that's way to much pressure. Perhaps bring it over breakfast. Explain that you've notice that you have not been having sex as often as you used to. See how he responds. hopefully you will both talk like adults and work it out. if the response comes off negative then the others may be right it might be time to move on.
*Good Luck
2006-10-25 05:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by COLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying to conceive with this guy? If that's the case, then I think he's lost interest because he doesn't want a baby. If you aren't ttc, then he's either lost interest in you or getting it from someone else. Sorry but life is tough and you don't need any sugar coated answers. You're young, move on.
2006-10-23 16:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but as a guy, he either is getting bored with having sex with you or he is having it with someone else. He is young so it's not uncommon. I had that problem with many women I was with. It just gets old after a while. And it's usually nothing that you do wrong, it's just we get bored. If you haven't already, you might want to suggest videotaping it. That might stir him up a little more and make it interesting. Of course, you should keep the tape safe somewhere.
2006-10-23 15:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by DJ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think you shouldn't beg a guy for sex. if he turns around on you, then do the same to him when he wants to.i'm sorry to say this,but maybe he's got someone on the side.
my advice is to talk to him about it, tell him he's making you very unhappy, and if he doesnt want to work it out, i think it'll be time to let him go. goodluck!!!
2006-10-23 18:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by ang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there something more? I notice this question is listed under pregnancy parenting and tryin to conceive...Are you tryin for a baby that he doesnt want?
oR is he just busy at work and really tired? stressed?
2006-10-23 15:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by Bo Beeta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try different positions or tricks if that doesnt work than hes just not interested in you anymore maybe you should find out his fantasy or something like that
2006-10-23 15:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by brenpren07 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's getting it elsewhere. I mean come on, you have a seventeen year old body. Get a new guy.
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2006-10-23 16:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by twowords 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a problem. What guy turns it down?
2006-10-23 15:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your young find a new man
2006-10-23 15:35:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's not normal for a man that age, maybe he's not well.
2006-10-23 15:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋