Return a blokes calls or respond to a text message even though you have said 'Look this is just not for me...' Being polite! Should you now be blunt!?!?!?!?!
2006-10-23 08:28:05 · 6 answers · asked by untanuta 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Even when it goes quiet for a month or so...and then that little text alert goes...hey presto here we go again!
2006-10-23 08:36:27 · update #1
And you ignore the message, they go quiet and then, just as little trick they change there mobile number and you answer it, actually i think i've worked it out. I have a stalker!
2006-10-23 08:39:07 · update #2
Sometimes you simply have to hit us guys over the head with the "NO THANK YOU" stick.
Try one last conversation, perhaps something like, "John, while I'm flattered that you're so interested in me, and while I'm sure there are many many women out there who would feel lucky to be in a relationship with you, a romantic relationship between us is something I'm very sure is NOT right for me. Your continuing to call and text message me actually makes me uncomfortable and so I would appreciate it if you would stop.
2006-10-23 08:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by ScubaGuy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my experience yes it pays to be a little blunt if the person pursuing you will not take no for an answer. Also it stops there being any "Oh she's playing hard to get" situation occurring. Hope this helps.
2006-10-23 15:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by mizzsquitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course. . be blunt. How many different ways can you say it nicely and he not get it. . and sometimes guys just don't get it. . sometimes you have to give it to them raw.
2006-10-23 15:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by Cris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be a hallmark card for this occasion... perhaps it should read.....
It's over! I have no interest in you! Good bye!
2006-10-23 15:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell them politely and seines that not working tell them bluntly but politely if that's possible
good luck
2006-10-23 15:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by sami d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-10-23 15:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋