i have been married for 2 years and love my husband and am very attracted to him. we have great sex when we do but somehow i am not very interested at all. its like my brain wants to do it but my body wont cooperate. i am 23.
2006-10-23 08:24:33 · 10 answers · asked by deanzzgirl 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It sounds like you're bored and you need to mix things up. Tell your husband some of your fantasies and have him tell you his and try to go from there. Good luck and dont' sweat it! We all go through dry spells from time to time.
2006-10-23 08:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way. I am into a different kind of sex, you could say. I'm a freaky girl. Normal sex does nothing for me. This is why I have such a hard time with my man. He is a great boyfriend, etc... but I can't really stomach having sex with him. I'm bored. Maybe you have fantasies that you need to act on. There is something you crave that he isn't giving you. Hmmmm.
2006-10-23 15:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you have kids? Sometimes with so much going on it is hard to be aroused. If you can plan sex, you have to get everything else off your mind. Try some role playing or new positions. Have you and your husband been struggling lately? These things will affect your sex life.
2006-10-23 15:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by laedeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever had an orgasm? I was 20 years old when I had my first one and everything changed from then on. I remember I was always attracted to my boyfriend but my body wasn't into it. Once you have truly experienced one, you and your body will want it all the time. At least for me that is...
2006-10-23 15:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by Yahoogirl21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this just started rencently, I'd think about getting a pregnancy test, I feel the same way about my husband, but since i got pregnant I am having the same problem
2006-10-23 18:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see a doctor. You could be having a physical problem. Best to be checked out by a professional just to be on the safe side.
2006-10-23 15:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you on the pill? Antidepressants? both of these things screwed me up and I had zero sex drive. (but it also didn't help that I wasn't attracted to my mate either... but that's a whole other story)
2006-10-23 15:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stress...over worked...might need to be more physical and exercise...boredom...there are plenty reasons why you may feel this way. try setting aside 20 minutes a day and getting naked either alone or with him...turn off everthing and actually be by yourself...explore yourself again.
2006-10-23 15:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by mysterious_qt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to know the answer. I have the same problem.
2006-10-23 15:26:15 · answer #9 · answered by Beth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just stressed and tired. Have you had any changes in your life lately?
2006-10-23 15:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by Cassandra M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋