I'm a virgin and my boyfriend has been trying to help prepare me to have sex. He's been fingering me and whenever he does it burns. I get very little pleasure out of but I want to so bad. Please help!!!
2006-10-23 08:24:23 · 8 answers · asked by equestrian423 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Many woman don't get pleasure out of just being penetrated, most of our pleasure comes from our clitoris. He needs to concentrate on all of you not just your vagina!
Good luck!
2006-10-23 08:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by JS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make certain that your boyfriend washes his hands and fingers before he touches you. Also, make certain that his fingernails are trimmed very short and filed smooth so that he isn't cutting your labia, clitoris, or vaginal tissues. If he refuses, get a new boyfriend who cares about your pleasure rather than his own. You didn't mention that the same thing occurs when you masturbate. I am sure that you make certain that you take care of not hurting yourself. He's probably not very good at this.
2006-10-23 15:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him try oral sex first, to get your juices flowing, when it burns, it means you are too dry.
But first and foremost, if you're not ready, or comfortable, it won't be pleasurable!! Remember you can't take it back!!! Be careful sweetie and enjoy your self!!!
2006-10-23 15:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by Gabrielle V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trim the fingernails
wash his hands prior
do you have a yeast infection?
Relax, get some KY if needed.
Fingering really will help you out before you start having intercourse. At least it worked for me.
2006-10-23 15:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can make it more pleasurable by using his tongue instead of his fingers. You'll like it, too.
2006-10-24 23:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him to wet his fingers first
2006-10-23 15:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by Pauline 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it burns, you should see the doctor. You might have an infection of some kind. Nothing should burn!!
2006-10-23 15:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? Maybe you're too young and nervous for it to be enjoyable.
2006-10-23 15:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋