is it ok to like a teacher? ya I always hear "it's ok to like a teacher!" But in my case he's 55 and I'm only 14! is this ok? cause I'm always fanasizing about him! He always talks to me in the halls,in class,near my locker,during recess and during lunch. He's very comical and has a great sense of humor! the otherday he rubbed my back as he was talking to me. Is this normal?
2006-10-23 08:23:31 · 11 answers · asked by Lilabelle ♥ 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
No touching. It's ok to like a teacher and a lot of young girls get crushes on their teachers. That's normal. BUT...getting too familar and touching is out! Some younger girls are more vulnerable to suggestions that are out of line and the touching could lead to other things. Sorry, but you need to distance yourself from him , both emotionally and physically.
2006-10-23 09:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by ironbrew 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i am 14 and i do fancie a teacher and i no its seems like he fancies u or there might be soming there, but there isnt hun u may of got ur lines crossed , if he does come to close or says soming to u this is were he crosses the line then tell a teacher. dont get the wrong idea though hes just trying top be comfoting to u. i suggest you read love lessons by jaqeline wilson its is about a girl that fancies her art teacher i think u would benifet from it
2006-10-23 08:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by stephanie t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a joke but hey........ If you think this is normal you are lying to your self ! Go get help Now ! You might come up missing or raped with a baby that has a 55 year old father.
2006-10-23 08:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by (Sk8) Julien (Sk8) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is totally normal to have a crush on a teacher but for him to reciprocate in any way is inappropriate and an abuse of his authority. He is crossing the boundary by rubbing your back. That kind of contact between teacher and student is entirely inappropriate.
2006-10-23 08:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by lepninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful ! Don't confuse friendship for love ! His rubbing your back was definitely crossing the line and you should be on your guard ! Something definately seams out of whack here.
2006-10-23 08:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by S.A.M. Gunner 7212 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this is not normal. Be very careful. Liking a teacher is one thing, getting into a relationship with a teacher is altogether different.
2006-10-23 08:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by Joanne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we have all gone through that. But the back rubbing is a bit weird. He should not be doing stuff like that.
2006-10-23 08:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by beckychr007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha . i dont see that ofotn . well the guys only like 40 years older then you. look no offence but you wana find a guy within your age range trust me . im 100 percent sure this isnt the guy your ment to be with. look you can have a crush on him but nothing more
2006-10-23 08:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by sexyshara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a friend or mentor, it is fine.. there are many teachers you will be able to get along with, but seriously do not let it get any further than friendship.
2006-10-23 10:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by Victoria O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but not 4 love
2006-10-23 08:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by anitababy.brainwash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋